Now I must admit to some chagrin. I am unfamiliar with the name Kelby, but I thought it had a feminine sound to it. I did not really think that consciously either. So I just assumed, and it was not a conscious assumption either, that Kelby was female. Ugh! I am a bit embarrassed. On Sat, Dec 27, 2008 at 9:57 AM, Mayrie ReNae <mayrierenae@xxxxxxxxx> wrote: > Hi Kelby, > > Thank you for clarifying that for me! I really mean that. I have > always had a heck of a time trying to find a polite way of asking folks > whose names are given to both boys and girls, "Excuse me, but uh, should I > refer to you as he or she?" It is so very difficult not to offend when my > intention is truly just to be respectful. Thanks again. > > Mayrie > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: kelby carlson [mailto:kelbycarlson@xxxxxxxxxxxx] > Sent: Saturday, December 27, 2008 4:46 AM > To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx > Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: My Sincerest Apologies > > One of them was a young man, actually. (grin) > > Kelby > > "Wake up, comrades, your compassion is killing us!" > > --Anonymous > > > >>----- Original Message ----- >>From: Cindy Rosenthal <popularplace@xxxxxxxxx >>To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >>Date sent: Sat, 27 Dec 2008 05:21:07 -0600 (CST) >>Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: My Sincerest Apologies > >>I agree with you, Mayrie. Both young ladies, after >>calming down, wrote mature and well-written posts. > >>Cindy Ro > >>--- Mayrie ReNae <mayrierenae@xxxxxxxxx> wrote: > >>> Hi Kelby, > >>> You know what? I think that you and Courtney are >>> awesome. You guys >>> have demonstrated a level of maturity never achieved >>> by many adults. You >>> guys have listened to what others have had to say, >>> even though we didn't all >>> agree with your points of view. You have shown a >>> willingness to rethink a >>> position, and to take action where you can. You two >>> have chosen to respond >>> thinkingly, and with courtesy and respect, even >>> though people do not agree >>> with what you have said. The ability to assess >>> whether we might be wrong >>> and to admit that human falibility takes great >>> courage. Thank you both very >>> much. > >>> Mayrie > >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: kelby carlson >>> [mailto:kelbycarlson@xxxxxxxxxxxx] >>> Sent: Friday, December 26, 2008 6:33 PM >>> To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >>> Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: My Sincerest >>> Apologies > >>> Again, I do apologize. My frustration is not with >>> the >>> volunteers, but with the system. I know the >>> volunteers cannot >>> fix the problems, and I admit I was thoughtless in >>> what I said. > >>> Kelby > >>> "Wake up, comrades, your compassion is killing us!" > >>> --Anonymous > > > >>>> ----- Original Message ----- >>>>From: "Roger Loran Bailey" <rogerbailey81@xxxxxxx >>>>To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >>>>Date sent: Fri, 26 Dec 2008 20:11:16 -0600 (CST) >>>>Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: My Sincerest >>> Apologies > >>>>If you have in no way blocked access to books to >>> anyone then I >>> don't >>>>think Kelby made any criticism of you in the first >>> place. I >>> would say, >>>>in that case, that you are not owed an apology, but >>> rather, you >>> are >>>>owed praise. > >>>>On Fri, Dec 26, 2008 at 5:00 PM, E. >>> <thoth93@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >>> wrote: >>>>> The apology is also owed to all of us who >>> volunteer, who scan, >>> who validate, >>>>> and who in no way have blocked anybody's access >>> to books. 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