Thank you Stella and Sha...I felt like I was reading about me :o) ________________________________ From: stella corner <stellacorner@xxxxxxxxxxx> To: women_of_phoenix@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Mon, 27 September, 2010 12:26:24 AM Subject: [women_of_phoenix] Re: Please Read :-) Fantastic wording and so true. I have stopped fretting about silly little things as I have got older,and now appreciate things that used to get me stressed. --- On Fri, 24/9/10, Sharon Gillam <sgillam@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote: >From: Sharon Gillam <sgillam@xxxxxxxxxx> >Subject: [women_of_phoenix] Re: Please Read :-) >To: women_of_phoenix@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >Date: Friday, 24 September, 2010, 6:52 > > >I absolutely love this. THANK YOU! > >--- On Wed, 9/22/10, Helen Knott <hiknott2@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > > >>From: Helen Knott <hiknott2@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> >>Subject: [women_of_phoenix] Please Read :-) >>To: "Carolann Morris" <cazmor@xxxxxxxxxxx>, women_of_phoenix@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >>Date: Wednesday, September 22, 2010, 12:22 PM >> >> >> I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving >>family >>for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become kinder to >>myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide >>myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying >>that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avante garde on my >>patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant. >> >> >> >>I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they >>understood the great freedom that comes with aging. >> >> >>Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM >>and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of >>the >>60 &70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ..... >>I >>will. >> >>I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, >>and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the >>pitying >>glances from the jet set. They, too, will get old. >> >> >>I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as >>well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things. >> >> >>Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break >>when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's >>beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength >>and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and >>sterile >>and will never know the joy of being imperfect. >> >> >>I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and >>to >>have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face. >> >> >>So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could >>turn >>silver. >> >> >> >>As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what >>other >>people think.. I don't question myself anymore.. I've even earned the >>right to >>be wrong. >> >> >>So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I >>like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I >>am >>still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or >>worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day (if >>I >>feel like it). >> >> >> >>MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S STRAIGHT FROM >>THE >>HEART! >> >>