Sounds like the cat has already decided you are hers or his. GRIN,,if this is the case, you might as well accept the fact, cause if you move she will go with you....and you dont want to make her go through one of those "incredible journey" things to find you, do you??? To me, the main difference tween dogs and cats is that one of them accepts almost any owner and is loyal and the other, picks YOU,,and if you pick them and they dont like you, you just learn to live with it..roflmao hugs webby ************* The Witches of the Solstice Moon http://solsticemoon.com/witches/ To edit your mailing mode (receive, digest, vacation) http://solsticemoon.com/witches/ To read on the web //www.freelists.org/archives/witchesofsm/