[windows2000] Re: OT: Strike? (Jim)
- From: "Charles R. Buchanan" <crbgfblab@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- To: windows2000@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
- Date: Wed, 07 Apr 2004 20:10:09 -0700
Well Jim, you run circles around me as far as computers are concerned,
but the one thing I think I have is the knowledge that, what you are
going through with your ex isn't unique. I know you're probably saying
"No sh!t! Let me try and explain. I divorced in 95, my kids were 9 and
6 at the time. As with most custody cases here in Ca. of course, mom got
custody. I had (key word) visitation rights. Didn't happen, so I went
back to court to have them enforced, and through the magic of Tv as they
say, those "rights" were taken away. Should have heard the lies the ex
were swewing forth. saying that my daughter didn't know me and so forth.
Anyway, as hard it was, people told me that I needed to focus on the
kids, screw the ex. Do what's right for the kids and everything will
work out, no matter what the ex does or says. Well, over time things did
get better, in fact me and my son (oldest of the two) have a get
together planned. My daughter is getting to know her family on my side,
and things ARE way better! Granted I missed a LOT of thier growing up,
school years and the such, but they know who their dad is, and they know
how much I love them, no matter what their mom said about me. They saw
it as it was. Kids don't like to hear one parent bad mouth the other. My
ex played that game, I didn't. It's starting to pay off. I still have
some way to go, and there's still a LOT of anger inside, but not as much
as it use to be, so while I'm sure it is difficult and heart wrenching
to see your daughter get put through the wringer, just treat her like
you normally would, don't speak ill of her mom in front or to her. She's
old enough and she'll see (if she doesn't already) what is the truth and
who actually has her best interest at heart. Good Luck to you and if you
need a place to vent or maybe get another opinion or what have you,
you're welcome to join this list called Custody Issues
custodyissues-subscribe@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Just my two cents!
On Wed, 07 Apr 2004 00:44:16 -0400, "Jim Kenzig http://thin.net";
<jimkenz@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> had this to say:
JKh> I'm going through h_ll right now..literally. I am embattled in a good
JKh> versus evil confrontation with my ex wife. She claims to be a witch and
JKh> pagan. (yeah the woman that was on Jerry Springer, Don't ask.) She is
JKh> trying to convert my 14 year old daughter to her beliefs. I'll not go
JKh> into every one of the details but this has been why I have been absent
JKh> from the lists over the last few weeks. After 14 years of not having
JKh> anything to do with the children she has returned to try and take away
JKh> custody from me. The lies and the hatred in her that are being passed
JKh> onto my children are spiritually and emotionally draining every ounce of
JKh> energy I can muster. I haven't been able to see them now for the last
JKh> month since this started. I can only imagine the emotional scars they
JKh> will have from this. We all know how the story ends though..good always
JKh> triumphs over evil. But I ask you, all my friends from over the years to
JKh> say a prayer for me to whatever God you believe in so that I can stay
JKh> strong in this fight and prevail.. especially please think of me and
JKh> send me all the positive energy you can next Monday the 12th. I'll need
JKh> all the help I can get.
JKh>
JKh> Thanks,
JKh> Jim
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