TN-Birders: When I began operating bird nets about eight years ago, I had a vision of what a list should be like and what it should do and who it should serve. I have always wanted the lists to be far more than just a list about birds seen on subscriber's field trips or at their feeders. I wanted all of that. I wanted much more. It was clear in my mind that that this list should not just be an imitation of what other state lists seem to be about. We aren't that much different from others but we do have a distinct and clear design and approach that allows everyone to subscribe and enjoy. We've kept the insider birder lingo to a minimal. We have kept the letter codes for bird names and places to as low a level as we can expect. We have done very well in making our posts clear and easy to read and understand. We have been civil. We have had a few feelings hurt but much of that would be hard to eliminate anywhere, even in bird clubs or birding groups. We strive to prevent even that much. We live in an age when people are hyper sensitive. We live in an age when many birders and many people in general have a great deal of anger about so many things and with so many people. Society and psychologists do not know where all this anger is coming from. Everyone wants every thing to happen with a click of a mouse and few of them. They want everything to happen now, quick, with the first click and they don't want anything on their computer screens that they have no tolerance for. They try to force that to happen. They become extremely angry when they read anything in any volume that they don't want to be bothered with or don't agree with. They rage! That's not all subscriber. It is not most. It is not many but it is enough to see the anger. At its best, TN-Birds should be a list about all things related to birds and mostly focused on Tennessee and areas of adjacent states. The list should be for discussion, debate and exchange of ideas and concerns. It should be about general birding, learning to bird, equipment, areas to bird, good birds, life birds, big days, counts, rarities, perspective for issues. We should discuss public policy regarding wildlife management as it relates to birds. We should discuss any aspect of government affecting birds or birding in any similar ways. It should be a place to get to know good birding. Good birders. Good people. Good friends. We should be free to praise people who do good things and challenge those who don't. We should be a place to ask hard questions and a place to provide solid answers. Above all, we should realize that you cannot participate in a list so varied, so diverse, with so many different view points and such broad feelings of sensitivity without someone posting something that any one of us will feel a little upset about. All of us need to constantly focus on the subjects, points of views and issues and not upon the individual who is making comments. Otherwise: don't don't be angry and mean to anyone for any reason if you can possibly control yourself. Sometimes we just get lost and we let that get away from us. Don't be afraid to disagree with anyone or any agency if you do it in a polite manner and with a good spirit. You don't have to become real angry at an individual and jump in someone's face to make a point. For the most part, I think subscribers to this list achieve almost all of that everyday in everyway on this list. I honestly think this is one of the best and most effective and most civil lists for birding and birds that you will find. We are not the best at discussions. We are not the best at tollerance. We are not the best at insight. If you ever want to read a really hard-nosed, tough, informative and challenging list, try Hummer Net out of Louisianna. It is hard to take but it is really good stuff. They can grind out any subject, theroy, or comment with amazing style and passion. I largely lurk there and on most other lists. Just like hundreds of TN-Birders I sit back, learn from others and watch the flow. I learn a great deal. Many subscribers to TN-Birds cringe when controversy begins because they just hate confrontation and anything that is associated with it. I hope they simply delete everythign that looks like that kind of message and move on to those they more prefer. There is plenty of room on TN-Birds for most all of us and most interests. I don't care if Jeff Wilson writes 10,000 words a day. I always read his messages, looking for the jewels hidden here or turned with this phrase and that. I can imagine that some of you may never open his messages or read them because his is a style that is something other than what you are watching for. But most subscribers are searing for a Jeff Wilson message and they are searching for that interesting view and his different ways to see things through his eyes. Jeff gets on me when he things I am getting off track. I always appreciate every word, even if I can't agree or fully agree (I do a lot of both). Two of our subscribers were surprised when I forwarded the message about "bitching" to the lists. The individual was willing, with my permission, to go over the person's own name to challenge other subscribers on that point. I thought the point had been well made in that statement and I sent it to the list without the subcriber's name but with my name on the message. I wanted everyone to focus on the content and not on the subscriber. Jeff Wilson did not send that message. If many of you knew who it was that wrote that you might be very surprised! As far as I can tell, no one has even an inkling of who that was. For that matter, it doesn't matter. As far as I know, the only person on this list who knows who wrote that is the subscriber and myself (unless that subscriber told a friend or others). It is the honest and unedited comments made in an e-mail to me by a subscriber. I didn't think that who wrote that was as important as what it said. It saved me from having to say all that again for the umpteenth time. That this is and nothing more. Enjoy TN-Birds. Let's go birding...... 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