In a message dated 12/28/2005 7:28:48 PM Eastern Standard Time, dfritsche@xxxxxxxxxxxxx writes: > i do not want to offend anyone! call me naive, but i see this as a > symbol of the south- and my or one's interpritation of that...small town, > country living, respect, mannors. i'm sort of a polyanna- but i am a > possitive person. > jenn Then for goodness sakes, Jenn, do not: * Use any symbol - they are designed to differentiate, define and identify, thus excluding others. * Celebrate any tradition - there are those who are of other traditions and who, if you are not with them, will conclude that you are against them, so they will be offended. * Use any colloquialism or regional language - If makes those who are not from your parts, feel different and thus offended. * Take off any holiday - Goodness knows, every holiday has some religious connotation, cause or event behind it that is offensive to someone. * Be careful not to talk - people get offended * Be careful not to exhale - your breath might not be sweet enough * Be careful not to go places - someone might see you there and... We live in a world that, unfortunately, is so fragile that we cannot relax and enjoy being who we are, speaking what we think, thinking what we want and doing what we please, simply because the offended minority think they deserve to live in a vacuum of anything that they do not approve of. Freedom is not freedom from offense, it is freedom to be.... So, be who you are, and if I am offended by your words, your symbols, your religion, your music, your race, your anything.... That is my problem - not yours. Dave I agree with Dave. We have become a country so politically correct that we have lost our true beliefs in fear that we'll offend someone, somewhere, somehow. We are so afraid of being percieved as being "bad", that we hide, surpress and some have even forgotten our core values. I was raised in the military and taught to respect others but not at the expense of my honest beliefs. I am from the south and have lived in the south most of my life. The Confederate flag is just that............a flag. It represents what you feel it represents, nothing more, nothing less. Me, it represents the South and has zilch to do with racism or offensiveness. I will say Merry Christmas and anything else I darn well wish to and to **** with political correctness. Denise Groenewald _www.greenwoodshepherds.com_ (http://www.greenwoodshepherds.com/) ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2005. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org ============================================================================