Sheila, I so agree with you. In fact, I challenge everyone out there to go up to at least 1 stranger at every show and say hi and be nice! I work for the welfare office in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. I love people and love to talk! People that come in here are so surprised how nice we are to them. I guess not all government employees are nice! Come on people, I challenge you. CandyZ > As someone who was 'new' just a few years back, new region, new dogs, new equiptment, new handlers, 30 years since my last show entered, I can say that getting the cold shoulder from people who obviously are at the umpteenth show, with who knows how many years of showing has a very chilling effect. > > I have said before I and I will say again, I am often the only exhibitor at specialties who talks to visitors. I have been told this over and over. I am naturally friendly, I can't help it, (I gotta be really angry or sick to be anit-social). > > But so many of our more venerated fellows are so caught up in grooming and double handling that being civil takes a back seat. > > IMO it is a crime to be so selfish with such great knowledge inside. The people who are most 'senior' at every show should be the first to be social. They know who is whom and they know which dogs are which and who has puppies for sale. > > I hope that everyone will become much friendlier, like at the southeatern shows this weekend. > sheila > > Sheila of Miami > Mernydex GSD's > Loving Obedience Dog Training > > --------------------------------- > Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Make PC-to-Phone Calls to the US (and 30+ countries) for 2?/min or less. > > ================================================= =========================== > POST is Copyrighted 2006. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. > > ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. > > For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx > > VISIT OUR WEBSITE - URL temporarily deleted due to AOL issues > ================================================= =========================== > --------------------------------------------- This message was sent using Endymion MailMan. http://www.endymion.com/products/mailman/ ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2006. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - URL temporarily deleted due to AOL issues ============================================================================