there was a song years ago about this woman telling off the Harper Valley PTA...Peggy that was excellent!...lets get married.....I have my own theory about being fair.....we need to worry about doing the correct thing...which is not always doing the fair thing...Ed Hill Peggy <pmick12@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: And, in the interests of being fair, I did speak to two different Board Members right after the initial Hunte vote. (and let us please not confuse that one with the second one...which was as much a fiasco as the first)............ The attorneys on the Board, both Margy AND Kris, did not vote to admit Hunte...and (as I was told, anyway) did advise the other Directors that nobody could "sue the pants off us" if Hunte didn't get in. Unfortunately, some of the Board didn't listen...they were swayed by influences they believed to be correct...........and nothing could dissuade them. Fear is a mighty emotion...when you think you are going to lose "everything," you pretty much do as you're told... I can say that I believe the fears should have been disspelled when the attorneys said "it can't happen." Not that attorneys can't be wrong, because they often are..........(tah dah!!!).......but in this case, misinformation on one hand and NO information on the other, plus undue influence from one person in particular, and another person backing that one up, convinced the remaining Directors to vote Yes. Is this an excuse? No....if you are going to be on the Board or hold office in an organization, you should know your legal rights and your standing...in this case, even tho Mr. Hunte may have WANTED to sue, his attorneys would most likely have told him it would have been a big waste of time. I say that because with his money he must have pretty good legal advice, no? And while they'd be happy to take his money, I'm sure they would have done their best to keep him from making a fool of himself. How many times does it have to be said...this club can refuse membership to any applicant..........in spite of what pumped up people who think they are infallible may have said...we had the right to tell Hunte to go fry ice...and some people were afraid to do it. I was told people were crying, that others were "buttonholing" certain people and having little mini-meetings...and the plain fact is that the entire matter was not handled according to Hoyle, or as any other application would have been handled This violation of our own P&P led to more and more violations and a growing distrust of any Board or Executive Committee action. The Hunte application for membership was NOT the first time the Board or Exec. Committee mishandled an issue...but it was the first to become widely known...and because everything has been conducted in secret since then, a lot of people are very unhappy..........nobody trusts anybody else, people lie, people confuse the issues, and it's all a great big mess. Accusations fly and some are deserved, some are not...that's par for the course. In the end, Kris and Margy, the two attorneys, both voted against letting Andrew Hunte into the club. That should have been a big clue to the ones who voted Yes............and it wasn't. Too late now..........and paying him to go away a couple of months later was an abominable act ... any attorney who advocated that should have been sent away on his or her ear............ Too many free-wheeling moves, too much bad advice, too much of all wrong stuff.............we're supposed to ask "What have you done for me lately?" Nobody dares asks that anymore...we might find out we've been had and not kissed in the process. I used a polite word there so as not to offend... but if you've read this far, you know what's been done to us.........thru ignorance, pride, arrogance and greed...but mostly thru ignorance. Luckily, not ALL of the seven deadly sins are on that list........but two are enough for me. Peggy ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2007. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. 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