In a message dated 10/14/11 10:37:41 PM Pacific Daylight Time, stormy435@xxxxxxxxx writes: I KNOW a lot of really great people, LOTS more "great" than nasty. And my glass is always half full, so I'll appreciate the good and "delete" the bad. I may be crazy, (shut up Paul), but the few nuts in this sport stand out. I find 99% of the people I know in dogs are just great. They have some strange activities such as showing dogs, but they are honest, kind, willing to help in any situation, and pull together when there is a person or dog in need. It became clear at the National. As I watched the crowds and as people streamed by the table I realized how fortunate I am to know them, and how much they have added to my life. I can't remember more than one or two people who have made it clear they can't stand me, and for those, I just feel sorry for what they don't have to laugh about. There are a few who want to bring down another, or to hurt someone with unkind words or deeds. But even those people have value, and often are doing what they are doing because of some pain they have suffered, or some slight they perceived. Given an opportunity, they often show another side and can be great. I remember when Paula started to win with Harley Davidson, and some people began a campaign of rumors. I told Paula it is very easy to lose, but when you start to win, there will always be some who want to cause you trouble. You have to ignore them, and respond with just the opposite attitude. In time you can sort out the best from the worst, and enjoy everything in the middles. I experienced that with Destiny, Dragon Slayer and Dakota. They were the first "big dogs" we had. Immediatly some people started to say things that weren't true about us and our dogs. But, that ended the more we ignored them. And, on the other side we made so many good friends through those dogs that the few who tried to attack us, seemed to fade away. If you list the number of people in this game and put them on the plus side of the paper for those who provide you value, and put the rest on the other side, you will realize that the vast majority of those who enjoy dogs, are great and people you are fortunate to know. Don't let the few drag you down. Just understand them, ignore them, and when asked, help them. Don't worry about who we lose, embrace those who stay. Evan Ginsburg Asgard German Shepherds http://www.asgardgsd.com/ Where Type Movement and Temperament come together ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================