I am probably the poster-child for newbie-ness, but I guess I have been lucky in a few different aspects. I was lucky to find my wonderful mentors, and good friends, Phil and Georgia Miller, and they've been so patient with all my stupid questions and decisions, and they've allowed me to not only get, but breed really nice dogs. I've met some great friends, gotten some wonderful advice.... I'm also lucky in that I have had nothing but pretty good experiences ring-side and even when I handle my dogs myself. No nasty comments directed toward me, that I've heard or cared about anyway LOL, I generally carry the ability to block stuff like that out (takes a lot to get under my skin). I congradulate others when their dogs beat mine and I get congrats when mine beat theirs!! I think everyone thought I was NUTS to celebrate our very first point EVER, but when will you ever get that First point again? ;-) Nothing ever comes quickly for me, so forget the instant gratification crap, and I'm glad it hasn't, I wouldn't have learned half the stuff I have, which is still only touching the tip of the iceburg. The shows I've been to I've seen newcomers treated with respect, helped and encouraged. Maybe I live with rose-colored glasses??? If so I am keeping them on. Not to say I don't ever see nastiness or pettiness, but those aren't the people you want to be around anyway, who cares what they think?? Just my after the morning cup of coffee thoughts.... Catherine Morton Mana Shepherds http://www.manashepherds.com <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< From: Gail BAUMAN <gailbauman1@xxxxxxx> Subject: Re: Fw: Re: Is this part of our problem? Date: Sun, 11 Jul 2010 07:30:12 -0500 Janet - you could be talking about just about anywhere....things like that happen in my area as well. I've found people who are supportive of me and my dogs, and that is who I spend my time with and around at the shows - but this stuff goes on in Anyplace, USA. Don't feel like you're all alone in that!! Gail Bauman Liebchen German Shepherds Home of: SEL EX CH Liebchen's Boogie Wonderland, OFA EX Liebchen's Eine Kleine Nachtmusik (major pointed) Liebchen's Clair De Lune (ch pointed, BOB) ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2010. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================