I recently went thru this in another breed that I was acquiring. I was the newbie this time I was the outsider and let me tell you there were no fuzzy, warm friendliness. There was one that explaind things etc. but she sort of already new who I was. My experience made me stop and reflect on how I interact with newbies at the shows. I try to be friendly and if I have to abruptly leave to groom or my dog is going in the ring i try to apologize and let them know. I am not saying I am perfect at this but my experience with the other breed has really made me aware and to be more responsible for my demeanor with newbies at shows. It all goes back to "incourage, not discourage" trust me it does make a difference. MYJOY SHEPHERDS Joyce Willis -----Original Message----- From: Anne Utter <rautt75@xxxxxxxxx> To: ELG440 <ELG440@xxxxxxx> Cc: Showgsd-l <Showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Thu, Mar 20, 2014 11:32 am Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] Re: declining entrees Evan, of course you enjoy. I wonder what it was like the first time you went. ere people that friendly to you? As a newbie and I had only one dog to show and put him with a well known andler for reasons that I couldn't possibly run and show him, i was ignored ompletely by some clubs and welcomed by others. It seems to depend on the embers of said club. I will say that Georgia was the greatest. I don't see he bad picture some have painted but I do see problems and I see where a few ould like to run everything their way. But that is nothing new in any sport tc. I showed in both specialty and all breed and have to agree that all breed eople were friendlier but then we have to remember, other breed owners are not ompetition so why wouldn't they be? In any sport, there is some degree of ompetitiveness and some just can't handle someone else having a dog better than heirs. I agree that shows should be fun but also isn't the reason for showing onformation supposed to be to get these breeding stock out there to see and be valuated for future generations of the GSD? If this is the case, then these ame dogs should have above reproach temperament and health as well as thleticism and be prepotent. do think the economy has hurt but it has hurt a lot of recreational activity. ho can afford a boat anymore and pay for the slip etc. I know now I can fford neither the shows or other sports. But I am too old anyway so i can enjoy atching others enjoy and cheer them on. nne, GA ent from Anne's iPad > On Mar 20, 2014, at 11:03 AM, ELG440@xxxxxxx wrote: When I go to the shows I see so much to enjoy. So many people I love to talk to. So much good being done for our breed. Such great dogs. =========================================================================== OST is Copyrighted 2014. All material remains the property of the original uthor and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind re permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the howgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its dministrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any ost. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER F ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL ARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A IOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org SUBSCRIPTION: http://showgsd.org/mail.html ATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ =========================================================================== ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2014. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org SUBSCRIPTION: http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================