I know exactly who you are talking about Nancy..this guy is trying to learn..he is trying to ask all the right questions and I probably spent an hour with him on the phone.. Part of education about the breed is taking time to talk with new folks...think about giving back to the breed what it has given to you...To be honest..I would much rather spend my time with a new person hungry for knowledge and eager to learn about the breed..then some who have been in the breed..and have lost their enthusiasm for the sport...and for the breed itself. C.Grainger > [Original Message] > From: Nancy Harper <nancy@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> > To: <showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > Date: 8/22/2005 9:32:05 PM > Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] communication > > This is just my take on some of the emails. We all have the right to our own opinions and we have the right to express those opinions. The WAY we CHOOSE to express our opinions can set an ugly tone or an invitation to a logical and meaningful discussion with one another. Do we really want to alienate one another? There has got to be a better way folks. > Had a phone call from a gentleman who was inquiring about using our stud dog. This man had two or three stud dogs recommended to him in order to help correct a fault in his well bred bitch's gait. Going away needed help. To my surprise this gentleman informed me that he had called two other breeders and that two of them had been so rude and arrogant, because he was a new comer, that he simply told them he no longer wished to talk to them and quietly hung up. This man was not put off, he is determined, but he surely did not come away with a good impression - fortunately he had talked to two other breeders about what to look for in a stud dog they were helpful, one was Christine Grainger and the other was Shirley Raymond. They took the time to try and help and give encouragement. > Here we are in a situation whereby we are loosing members, not bringing in new ones,entries are down, registrations are down, people going to other breeds etc. What is wrong with this picture? We cannot, in my book, capture a new audience, attract the public when we cannot treat each other with common courtesy. > How can we negotiate for what we might think is best for our breed when we are dodging bullets? > Nancy > ============================================================================ > POST is Copyrighted 2005. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. > > ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. > > For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx > > VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org > ============================================================================ ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2005. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org ============================================================================