I care for, or manage the care of, the "elderly" in our area - we have a couple of residents who are over 100 years old.. and some that are as young as 49 but unable to care for themselves. All are afflicted with some disease process that they will eventually die from. As that time draws near, I spend a great deal of time with families - I do not pity them, for they do not need my pity, but I show them compassion and help them find their way through the maze of decisions, paperwork, emotions, doubts and guilt. One question that always comes up is "Are we expected to just take away all hope?" I tell them that it has been my experience that as we move through life, we don't give up hope, we simply change what it is we hope for, and at this point in the "circle of life" (to coin a phrase)what we hope for is peace, comfort, love, respect and dignity as we move from this life to the next - and that our goal as nurses is to ensure that their loved one achieves all that. At this time, Robert and Donna deserve all that and more. Sue Madlung - Shadowacre Reg'd German Shepherds http://www.shadowacre.com > > Thank you for your words of wisdom Evan, we had met Robert years ago and have > stayed in contact with him and Donna. All we can do now is pray for him and > his family and keep them in our thoughts and prayers. > > Gary > > > ============================================================================ > POST is Copyrighted 2006. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. > > ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. > > For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx > > VISIT OUR WEBSITE - URL temporarily deleted due to AOL issues > ============================================================================ > > > -- > Internal Virus Database is out-of-date. > Checked by AVG Free Edition. > Version: 7.1.394 / Virus Database: 268.10.7/410 - Release Date: 8/5/2006 > > ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2006. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - URL temporarily deleted due to AOL issues ============================================================================