[ SHOWGSD-L ] Re: Unbelievably sad; did I do the right thing?
- From: Patricia Evans <patsgsdpups@xxxxxxxxx>
- To: fhenry1@xxxxxxxxxxx, showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
- Date: Fri, 11 Nov 2005 16:43:24 -0800 (PST)
yes you absolutely, positively did say and do the right thing.My only regret is
you didn't include their email address so the entire list could "attack". Now
that I think about it, with their kids the age they are-keep the dogs, get rid
of a couple of kids.
Fran Henry <fhenry1@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:This post just appeared on my local
"freecycle." I just couldn't help
myself.
> This offer is for two dogs. One, almost 4 years old, female American Bulldog
> (mostly white and beautiful) and a 2 year old female Boxer.
>
> This is going to be a long post but a lot of info to write. My partner is
> heartbroken to have to give up our two dogs (moving). She is absolutely
> devastated so this will not be easy and we need to know someone will love them
> dearly. We absolutely need to know these dogs will be loved and cared for.
> She is worried how she will even sleep at night, not knowing how they are so
> this decision needs to be made carefully. We would ask that anyone who takes
> them, for whatever reason, if it doesn't work to not take them to dumb
> friends league but to call us and let us figure out a new home. We are
> moving to Castle Rock and can't have them in the new house.
>
> First is Bailey-again, she is just beautiful! She is an American Bulldog.
> She is so so so sweet. We have a 3 year old, 7 yr old, 12 yr old and 16 yr
> old and so she has been around kids her entire life. She is particularly
> attached to our 7 yr old daughter. We have the belief that a dog is still a
> dog and as gentle as they seem, you always use common sense. She has never
> snapped or even acted like she would. She is completely potty trained. She
> is kennel trained. She loves to chew old plastic water bottles etc and will
> chew up some toys (plastic) if left alone with them but not often. Her
> downfalls are that she was raised in the mountains for the first year and
> could run as far and as wild as she wanted so she will bolt outside if you
> don't warn her before you open the door to 'stay back'. She can also not
> just go outside without a leash or she will run. She is also full of energy
> with some consider a downfall. If someone new comes to the door, she is full
> of herself with a 'pet me, oh please pet me attitude'. It only takes a
> minute to calm down but for that minute, she is full of energy and
> excitement. She did go through doggy school where she went for a full month
> (lived on site). She was trained to walk on a leash easily and not pull etc
> and many other things so we KNOW she can do it, but with all of our kids, we
> weren't able to put in the time to keep her on such a good schedule but with
> some work, you'd have her back to that in no time. She loves to have a ball
> thrown in the backyard and to chase it. She absolutely needs a backyard to
> play in. She is, however, primarily and indoor dog and doesn't really like
> to be outside a lot. She loves to sleep on a pillow but is kennel trained.
>
> Brandy is our boxer. We receive compliments on her all the time. She is all
> excitement and so sweet too. Her excitement though is more that she will
> just shake and shake and twist and twist. She doesn't run or go wild. She
> is a lovable dog. She can be timid. She is also kennel trained. She
> doesn't chew things up and can go outside in your front yard etc without a
> leash. She is easily walked and she also attended the doggy school.
Brandy's
> downfall is that she is not completely 100% housetrained. She sleeps in her
> kennel at night and the first thing she does is go outside to she hasn't had
> to learn 'wake me up to go potty'. When inside, we just give them ample
> chances outside so we never 'wait' for her to ask. We don't know if and when
> she would go in the house and can't say for sure that she would if given as
> many chances outside as we give. She is also NEVER left in the house without
> us there (she is put in her kennel) so again, we don't know if she would chew
> toys unattended or not.
>
> Both of these girls are so sweet and deserve a great home. Neither of them
> are registered but they are both purebred. We paid a lot of money for each
> of them.
>
> If you respond, please state why you want them and how you know they'd fit in
> your family. Please, the more you can tell us about you, the more it will
> ease their moms mind. I can't tell you how upset she is. She can't write
> this, or have part in it.
>
> Rosie
I'm really sorry, and I don't mean to add to your pain, but "moving" is an
unacceptable reason for abandoning your dogs. I've moved many, many times in
my life, and my dogs [German shepherds] moved with me. Would you re-home
your children? Surely, renting in a new city is just as difficult with small
children as it is with dogs.
I applaud you for your honest evaluation of your dogs, but I would also tell
you that "free" dogs are often abused. People don't value "free."
Please rethink your decision. You CAN figure out a way to keep your dogs
with you. They've given you unconditional love, loyalty, affection -- how
can you reward them with this? And I promise you, your partner's pain will
NOT go away. She will always wonder and will always feel guilty.
If I have misunderstood your situation, then I would urge you to withdraw
your dogs from Freecycle and find reputable breed rescues for each of your
dogs. Google the breed plus "rescue" and "Denver."
Respectfully,
Fran
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