In a message dated 4/11/2006 11:21:35 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, cinosamgsd@xxxxxxxxx writes: Am I being unethical by not telling them the reality of most dog shows...that they can expect to be ignored, yelled at if they get in the double handling zone, and hear nothing but snide comments if their dog wins? Is it that painful to people to just try and be nice once in a while....not all the time....but just once in a while You know, there have been hundreds of posts in the last several weeks along the same theme. Showing isn't "fun", showing is "too expensive", breeders did me "wrong", breeders "tricked me" into spending money, judges can't see to the other end of the ring, professional handlers get paid too much, etc., etc., etc. If it rains tomorrow, somehow I know FOR SURE it will be the AKC's fault... You know what? You make your own fun in life. (You make your own success in life too, but that's not for this post.) Conversely, hang out with a bunch of negative people just waiting for the sky to fall and you'll be negative and miserable and cranky (too.) Smile, get involved, put your hand out and you'll meet wonderful folks. (OK, once in a while, you'll meet a nut, but how is that different than any other part of life?) There are dozens of ways to enjoy competing with a GSD IF that's what you want to do, so go out and find one that fits the budget, get involved and quit whining! Kathy three generations of Dual Titled Champions live here! visit _Pine Hill German Shepherd Dogs_ (http://www.geocities.com/pinehillgsds/) ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2006. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - URL temporarily deleted due to AOL issues ============================================================================