Hi all: When I post to the List, I always do so because of observations through reading other peoples posts or talking and e-mailing to one another. As a "writer" one tries to connect with those who will be reading your posts whether by making them think, looking for input to hear another side of the story, wanting feedback, and looking for topics that may generate a response and open up a door for conversation. Most people who know me, and those who don't but have read my posts know I write from the heart, my observations are my own and my "claim to fame" has never been because I've been right, but rather that I've looked at all view points before I've made my decision about something. I belong to a writers List also, and everyone is always bouncing ideas off of one another. Ideas are how conversations begin.<p> My recent post "Ain't that a shame" generated mostly favorable responses because these people understood what I was trying to convey. It wasen't about whining as a few thought. Whining is when one is on their "pity pot" and saying "why me, nothing ever good happens for me, why do all the bad things happen to me", etc. This story was strictly OBSERVATIONS. I have no room to whine. I've had success on a small scale and was very happy with my accomplishments. I count among my friends some of the top breeders and judges in the country. I'm fortunate to call some of my new acquaintances friends now also. One makes their own success in this breed. No I have no room for whining. It's all been good. <p> As one of the smarter observers on this List wrote to me and said, I know you're not whining, your posts was about observations and the truth. Ruth wrote back with her positive observations. These two ladies GOT it. This is what I wanted to do..........open the door for conversation and hear what someone had to say that was good with the breed, because I wrote about what I heard that was wrong with the breed. There are those who look to stir the pot until it boils. I never take these things personally because I look at the posts they send to other people and they remain true to their nature no matter who they're dealing with.<VBG><p> Those of you who responsed both pro and con.............you never disappoint. Thanks, Barbara ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2005. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org ============================================================================