In a message dated 2/1/2006 5:20:11 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, Ketchy@xxxxxxxxxx writes: All I know is that it sure is difficult to place puppies: the agenda is mind-boggling--always trying to choose the best homes. I'm sure we've all made mistakes. I sure do agree w/ Penny on this! I got off the phone w/ a man the other day who had lost his 13 year old bitch. In his quest to find a puppy to fill the emptiness, he had called several people; some I knew and some I didn't. He managed to get tangled in the show v working discussion and really would have been happy (DELIGHTED!)to find a backyard breeder after what some of the "show-hobby" breeders (both German and American) had stipulated re the purchase of their dogs. He remarked "we were all a little bit eccentric". And he's right, I thought. In fact, his choice of words seemed rather kind:) My day starts and ends on the dogs' schedules. I know I'm far from alone in this, but to someone not quite so involved in "our" world, I can imagine it all seems pretty strange. It's no wonder then, when something goes wrong re a dog we've placed (illness, a new baby, an aging parent, divorce, relocation, bankruptcy), and the "perfect" home is no longer a forever home, that on occasion people make mistakes re their dog. Can I tell you how many times someone has called with a situation that isn't working out, and when I ask them if they've called their breeder they are puzzled by the question? I'm certain SOME of those breeders have that provision in their original paperwork, but because of whatever else is going on in their lives, (and often, it's no small obstacle), folks forget. Then, there are the people who just out and out fool you, who have all the perfect responses memorized. BTW, I'm not sure if I'll have something for the man mentioned above, (HOPE so!), but I have to tell you, when someone calls with a lump in their throat after loosing a 13 year old, my questions stop right there:) No stipulations and weird contracts, demands, or provisions, lol, just my normal puppy packet, routine immunization, worming and health records and the directions "take her home and love her", "send lots of pictures" and "don't hesitate to call me if you EVER need anything." Kathy three generations of Dual Titled Champions live here! visit _Pine Hill German Shepherd Dogs_ (http://www.geocities.com/pinehillgsds/) ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2005. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org ============================================================================