In a message dated 7/25/12 3:56:22 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, onaluzlead@xxxxxxx writes: Do you know how disheartening it is for "a kid" to have to deal with that and come to understand the politics and the protocol of "how it is..." I started off teaching Summer how to handle a dog. I got a lot of help from Cindy, Debbie, Bob Grady, and others. When she learned how to handle, I then took some time to teach her how not to get beat. Only then did I try to show her how to win. These are all different. I made sure what happened to me when I started, did not happen to her. As her dogs got ready to win, I did not take them away to give to a big name handler. I stuck with her. We may have taken a bit longer to finish Kirk because of this, but it was important to her, and to us. All during these lessons, I tried to show Summer how much fun it was to play in the ring with dogs. How nice other handlers and owners were, and how she would enjoy being in the ring, win or lose. I never stressed winning, and tried to make her enjoy the shows, in or out of the ring. I encouraged her to show at a National with a young dog in the classes and shared with her the excitement to even place. I introduced her to as many of us as possible and made sure she talked to people like Iliana, Nancy, Bob Dresher, Donna, Bill Basu, Molly and so many others who encouraged her. Only now am I starting to emphasis the value of watching what the other handlers are now doing to beat her, and how to deal with it. As a result she loves to show, looks forward to the ring, has made friends with her dogs, and does not judge the quality of the time she has at the shows against whether or not she wins. That is how to encourage a Junior. And, this year if the board allows it, they will all get a medal from the Youth Recognition Fund. And, if you all get up off your wallet, some money in the shape of a savings bond as well. Evan L. Ginsburg Asgard German Shepherds http://www.asgardgsd.com/ Where Type Movement and Temperament come together ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================