Content-Type: text/plain; charset="US-ASCII" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit canada, canadian search engine, free email, canada news Monday > August 25 > 2008 Memorial wall for pets a Canadian first Hundreds of animal lovers attend unveiling Michelle Butterfield Calgary Herald Sunday, August 24, 2008 Canada's first memorial wall to commemorate beloved pets was unveiled in an emotional ceremony at the Calgary Humane Society Saturday afternoon. Hundreds of people, some travelling from as far as Penticton, B.C., gathered on the grass behind the shelter to remember the animals that have become so much more than pets -- many consider them members of the family. It's taken four years of planning and fundraising to build the wall, which boasts more than 250 granite plaques engraved with pictures, names and special messages to more than 600 animals. "The majority of the people here have lost a pet and understand the tremendous amount of grief that comes with that loss," said Terri Perrin, an animal lover and former president of the Calgary Pet Loss Support Group. Perrin formed the non-profit group in 1990, in an attempt to provide counselling and resources for people who had lost their furry friends. And while the group has helped a lot of Calgarians through their grief, it is dissolving later this year because they feel their mandate has been accomplished. Current president, Laura Hunt, said the group is taking less phone calls than in the past and are receiving fewer requests for resources. And while many would view that as a sign of failure, she said their mission statement has now become a reality. "In the past people didn't really understand the effect of losing a pet could have on a person," she said. "But now we are seeing employers, friends and families taking on the supportive role -- hence the decline in our services." Both Perrin and Hunt describe the dissolution as "bittersweet," but are thrilled to see alternative types of support becoming increasingly available. Employers will often give people time off after the death of a pet and veterinarians offer grieving rooms and educate people on where to find support. "It's hard to walk away, but it's reassuring knowing there are so many resources out there," said Hunt. Straja Linder King, a registered art psychotherapist, offers similar grief therapy to people whose pets have died. "It's sad to see the group gone because this was a service everyone can access because it was free," she said, stressing the importance of a proper grieving process after a pet dies. "Grief is a broken heart at the death of a relationship, but anything we can do to help memorialize our animals is a big help," she said. "That's why this wall is very important. It's a way for people to heal." mbutterfield@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx C The Calgary Herald 2008 <http://www.canada.com/components/print.aspx?id=6caee60d-3a74-4c92-a5cb-3cfe 16f54ecd&k=59083&sponsor=##> Close Copyright C 2008 CanWest Interactive, a division of CanWest MediaWorks Publications, Inc. <http://www.canwestglobal.com/> . All rights reserved. CanWest Interactive, a division of <http://www.canwestglobal.com/> CanWest MediaWorks Publications, Inc.. All rights reserved. ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2007. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - www.showgsd.org ============================================================================