In a message dated 1/27/11 8:55:11 AM Pacific Standard Time, bilinudgel@xxxxxxxxx writes: I am seeking some advice from the list. Recently I contributed towards a memorial, my name was not mentioned on the memorial page. I contacted the person who collected the contributions and asked for the cheque to be returned ( it has been cashed) so I could send it to a rescue of my choice. I have received no response from the person who collected the contributions. What would you do? Feel good about making the contribution. That is why we do it, not for recognition, or to see our name. I often am left off a memorial, and I most often don't look. I send a check because I feel badly for the person who suffered the loss. Seeing my name on the page has nothing to do with it. I would send the same money if it was to be annonomous. Evan Ginsburg Asgard German Shepherds http://www.asgardgsd.com/ Where Type Movement and Temperament come together ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================