In a message dated 1/3/05 5:06:37 PM, Karen4paws@xxxxxxx writes: << It is much easier to just drop them at the shelter. Why they are embarrassed to tell the person they bought the dog from they can't keep them but not embarrassed to tell us they will put the dog down if we don't take them is beyond me! >> ==================== Boy is this true...the only dog that I have bred that the owners wanted to give up when the wife had a baby and decided to move from California to Florida, would not tell me. Luckily she told her vet, who happened to be a good friend of mine and she called me. When I called the owner, it took several phone calls and several weeks for her to call me back. When she finally did, I stated that I wanted to dog back and I would fine a home but to give me a deadline. She agreed to give me several weeks notice. One day she called and said the dog had to go in two days. Luckily I had been calling some people who were on my puppy waiting list and through one of them, I found a great lady in SF who came over to meet Gussie, took one look at her and said "Let's go home" . Off Gussie went without even a look back at her previous home! This person is now one of my dearest friends and has since purchased two more dogs from me and was the first person to put a Performance Award of Merit on one of my dogs. It worked out very well for all of us. But I learned two things...one go with your gut instincts on people...even if they say all the right things. When I interviewed the couple, they both gave all the right answers but for some reason I had a funny feeling about them but someone I knew who knew them vouched for them and said they would be a good home. Since this was my first litter, I thought maybe I was being too picky...not! Now I listen with my gut and not necessarily with my ears! And the second thing I learned, that even if you have it in your written contract that the owner is to contact you, the breeder, if they have to give up the dog, it doesn't mean that it happens. Kay Springer www.showboatgsd.com ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2004. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org ============================================================================