I never feel guilty :0) Quilt is self inflected misery :0) I give when I want to and don't when I don't. It is as simple as that. I take care of my own first. http://wikilivres.info/wiki/The_Prophet/Giving All you ever need to know about giving :0) Terry ________________________________ From: "Pinehillgsds@xxxxxxx" <Pinehillgsds@xxxxxxx> To: ELG440@xxxxxxx; showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Wednesday, November 16, 2011 8:45 AM Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] Re: Exhausted hearing sad tales Thanks Evan, I needed those words, especially today. I feel so much guilt lately. I see so many "have-nots" and DAILY receive numerous solicitations from "fav" charities, St. Jude, Children's Hospital, Boys Town, local food banks, veterans charities...even walking out of a restaurant the other day w/ DM, we "found" a box for a collection for a local food bank. The priest on Sunday mentioned when he first came to our parish, the parish had a request for 21 Thanksgiving food baskets. This year it is over 80. Our parish isn't what one would usually think of as "needy" so I don't dare let my mind wander to those less fortunate locations... it's a privilege to be in a position to be able to help but by the same token how can I not feel guilty when I go to Costco later this month and buy dog food, when the same dollars would buy over 188 really good meals for hungry people???? Yes, I did the math...sick huh???? Not to mention $$$ spent on vet bills (and thankfully not for sick dogs, just routine "stuff"). So, anyway, I've been feeling pretty guilty on the $$$ spent on my hobby.... Kathy, member GSDCA, DVGSDC Celebrating generations of Dual Titled TC'd Champions visit _http://www.pinehillgsds.com/_ (http://www.pinehillgsds.com/) In a message dated 11/16/2011 11:27:27 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, ELG440@xxxxxxx writes: In a message dated 11/16/11 8:12:06 AM Pacific Standard Time, stormy435@xxxxxxxxx writes: And, sadly for local organizations and breed rescues, there are many "Rescues" now that are building big treasuries, making it a business and paying the owners big salaries. Those need to be exposed and the money redirected to those who help the dogs, not the building of pensions. This is such a personal decision, that I often ignore these requests and just do my own thing. For years I supported the Muscular Dystrophy Association since my father and my three nephews suffered from this. Then I had cancer and began to give to the Cancer Societies. Then Tedi and I got diabetis and so they got a share of my charity. Then memorials in the Review, fund drives at the schools, Christmas wrapping, and animal shelters. I see so much pain throughout the world, including my own credit cards, and mortgages that at times it seems a bottomless hole. Everyone gets a piece and yet needs more. I give free legal services as often as I can, and work seven days a week in order to get the work done for the clients so that I do have the money to do the other things. Everyone has to pick where to give and how much. No one should be criticized for what they pick and each has their own reasons. Only you can decide what is important to you. There is no end to the needs, only a limit to the resources. All are deserving of our attention, but there is a limit for each of us. From the donation to the GSDCA for our membership to the local shelter, food for our children, medical care for orphans in Kenya, or a pet that needs rescue. There are some who spend hours to keep the List running, or to help their disabled child, or sick spouse. There are some of us struggling to overcome adversity, and to survive another day. It is a personal decision and no one should be criticized for their decision. We each do the best we can to get through the day, and be there to enjoy another. Evan Ginsburg Asgard German Shepherds http://www.asgardgsd.com/ Where Type Movement and Temperament come together ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org ; SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ =========================================================================== ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org ; SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ===========================================================================Pacific Standard Time, stormy435@xxxxxxxxx writes: And, sadly for local organizations and breed rescues, there are many "Rescues" now that are building big treasuries, making it a business and paying the owners big salaries. Those need to be exposed and the money redirected to those who help the dogs, not the building of pensions. This is such a personal decision, that I often ignore these requests and just do my own thing. For years I supported the Muscular Dystrophy Association since my father and my three nephews suffered from this. Then I had cancer and began to give to the Cancer Societies. Then Tedi and I got diabetis and so they got a share of my charity. Then memorials in the Review, fund drives at the schools, Christmas wrapping, and animal shelters. I see so much pain throughout the world, including my own credit cards, and mortgages that at times it seems a bottomless hole. Everyone gets a piece and yet needs more. I give free legal services as often as I can, and work seven days a week in order to get the work done for the clients so that I do have the money to do the other things. Everyone has to pick where to give and how much. No one should be criticized for what they pick and each has their own reasons. Only you can decide what is important to you. There is no end to the needs, only a limit to the resources. All are deserving of our attention, but there is a limit for each of us. From the donation to the GSDCA for our membership to the local shelter, food for our children, medical care for orphans in Kenya, or a pet that needs rescue. There are some who spend hours to keep the List running, or to help their disabled child, or sick spouse. There are some of us struggling to overcome adversity, and to survive another day. It is a personal decision and no one should be criticized for their decision. We each do the best we can to get through the day, and be there to enjoy another. Evan Ginsburg Asgard German Shepherds http://www.asgardgsd.com/ Where Type Movement and Temperament come together ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org ; SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ =========================================================================== ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org ; SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ =========================================================================== Pacific Standard Time, stormy435@xxxxxxxxx writes: And, sadly for local organizations and breed rescues, there are many "Rescues" now that are building big treasuries, making it a business and paying the owners big salaries. Those need to be exposed and the money redirected to those who help the dogs, not the building of pensions. This is such a personal decision, that I often ignore these requests and just do my own thing. For years I supported the Muscular Dystrophy Association since my father and my three nephews suffered from this. Then I had cancer and began to give to the Cancer Societies. Then Tedi and I got diabetis and so they got a share of my charity. Then memorials in the Review, fund drives at the schools, Christmas wrapping, and animal shelters. I see so much pain throughout the world, including my own credit cards, and mortgages that at times it seems a bottomless hole. Everyone gets a piece and yet needs more. I give free legal services as often as I can, and work seven days a week in order to get the work done for the clients so that I do have the money to do the other things. Everyone has to pick where to give and how much. No one should be criticized for what they pick and each has their own reasons. Only you can decide what is important to you. There is no end to the needs, only a limit to the resources. All are deserving of our attention, but there is a limit for each of us. From the donation to the GSDCA for our membership to the local shelter, food for our children, medical care for orphans in Kenya, or a pet that needs rescue. There are some who spend hours to keep the List running, or to help their disabled child, or sick spouse. There are some of us struggling to overcome adversity, and to survive another day. It is a personal decision and no one should be criticized for their decision. We each do the best we can to get through the day, and be there to enjoy another. Evan Ginsburg Asgard German Shepherds http://www.asgardgsd.com/ Where Type Movement and Temperament come together ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org/ ; SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ =========================================================================== ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org ; SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ===========================================================================Pacific Standard Time, stormy435@xxxxxxxxx writes: And, sadly for local organizations and breed rescues, there are many "Rescues" now that are building big treasuries, making it a business and paying the owners big salaries. Those need to be exposed and the money redirected to those who help the dogs, not the building of pensions. This is such a personal decision, that I often ignore these requests and just do my own thing. For years I supported the Muscular Dystrophy Association since my father and my three nephews suffered from this. Then I had cancer and began to give to the Cancer Societies. Then Tedi and I got diabetis and so they got a share of my charity. Then memorials in the Review, fund drives at the schools, Christmas wrapping, and animal shelters. I see so much pain throughout the world, including my own credit cards, and mortgages that at times it seems a bottomless hole. Everyone gets a piece and yet needs more. I give free legal services as often as I can, and work seven days a week in order to get the work done for the clients so that I do have the money to do the other things. Everyone has to pick where to give and how much. No one should be criticized for what they pick and each has their own reasons. Only you can decide what is important to you. There is no end to the needs, only a limit to the resources. All are deserving of our attention, but there is a limit for each of us. From the donation to the GSDCA for our membership to the local shelter, food for our children, medical care for orphans in Kenya, or a pet that needs rescue. There are some who spend hours to keep the List running, or to help their disabled child, or sick spouse. There are some of us struggling to overcome adversity, and to survive another day. It is a personal decision and no one should be criticized for their decision. We each do the best we can to get through the day, and be there to enjoy another. Evan Ginsburg Asgard German Shepherds http://www.asgardgsd.com/ Where Type Movement and Temperament come together ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org ; SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ =========================================================================== ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org ; SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================ÿÿ ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================