In a message dated 9/13/2006 12:09:05 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, Dglov49@xxxxxxx writes: Well said Cathy, I had a litter in the spring, and was told by the stud dog owner and her friend, that I should not be breeding if I could not be home 24/7 with the pups. I am a single mom. I work because I have to. Does that mean I cannot enjoy what I love, which is raising, showing and training my dogs?????? This type of narrow minded thinking is for the birds. No one has the right to decide this. My dogs are well loved, well taken care of and get lots of attention. Denise Selde Kennel It might mean that you have to put off something for a while. Wasn't this the smallish litter (maybe of 2?) with all the issues you shared with 'da list, then the stud dog owner (graciously I thought) took care of them while you were at work, you took them back, later one died? If it's not, I apologize. BUT, what happens when you have to go to leave for work and a wee puppy doesn't look right? Might not be nursing enough? What happens when you have to run to the vet during work hours? Do you take a week off so that you can watch mom pre and post whelping? Or if she delivers during the day in the middle of the week does she whelp by herself while you are at work? (Ever see a bitch in trouble?)What about when you start weaning the puppies? How do you fit in many small meals a day when you are at work? What about when they are being weaned and mom doesn't clean up anymore? Do they have to be dirty until you come home from work? Or if it's nice by then, are they outside? What if it rains unexpectedly and you left them outside? I haven't even thought of all of the scenarios that a child not feeling good, having homework, after school activities etc., might present. (And certainly, a child would be the first priority, since you have to keep your job to care for yourself and child, that makes employer second and momma dog and puppies a distant third.) Sorry, don't know who the stud dog owner or friend was, but I'd have to agree. Kathy member GSDCA, DVGSDC three generations of Dual Titled TC'd Champions live here! visit _Pine Hill German Shepherd Dogs_ (http://www.geocities.com/pinehillgsds/) ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2006. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - URL temporarily deleted due to AOL issues ============================================================================