Perhaps my outlook is a bit different. I always prepare my dog(s) the best I can, in all ways, and then when the dog is in the ring, I'm about as nervous as a parent with a child in some sort of competition. YOu do the best you can, then you just have to relax and enjoy the day...win or no win. Just as you can't be the child in the competition, you can't be the dog in the ring Those of us who have taken our own dogs in and won tend to forget that it was the DOG that won...and thank goodness a judge that could see the dog, not the end of the lead:-). And "most" of the time it IS the dog that is winning or not winning, not you (generic you), so why get uptight? It's much more stressful for me in performance trials, because then I am part of a team. If I goof, the dog doesn't get all up tight though. :-) I'm totally thrilled when my dog(s) win, but not devastated or bitter nor does it make it any less fun when they don't win. Who needs that? The dog needs the hugs and the congratulations just as the child needs the hugs and congratulations, win or not, and a big treat or a trip to the pizza parlor. And there are no losers when you can have that frame of mind. There's always tomorrow or next week, and there are so many more life experiences that are more important. Really. Stormy "You may never know what results come from your action. But if you do nothing, there will be no result." Mahatma Gandhi Stormy Hope *~~*~~*~~*~~*~~*~~*~~*~~*~~*~~* Dog's love is different, it requires no return www.FairhopeGSD.com ************************************** Check out AOL's list of 2007's hottest products. (http://money.aol.com/special/hot-products-2007?NCID=aoltop00030000000001) ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2007. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - www.showgsd.org ============================================================================