Justin F. Knotzke wrote: > I had a friend of mine who got married. He loved my work. He asked me > to shoot his wedding for free. I considered it a gift. For him, he was > having his buddy shoot his wedding. I was going to cover the wedding the > way I wanted to cover it and the groom knew that. The bride? She wanted > a full out wedding photog with all the fixings and assumed that would be > me. > > Let's just say, she was REALLY ticked when she didn't see any > close-up shots of the candle on the guest's dinner table with the bride > and groom in out of focus background. Yech. > > So ya, I've learned my lessons. I had the good fortune to do some (non-wedding) work with a photographer that did a lot of weddings and learned this lesson without being the brunt of an unhappy bride. My personal advice? You pursue photography because you enjoy doing it your way. Don't think that taking money will make it any better; be totally self-indulgent and worry about your own happiness. Don't accept clients; decide which projects you *want* to shoot. When someone offers you an opportunity for a project, be totally upfront that it's all about you and your vision and they're lucky you're even considering the project. I'm serious. Dana ============================================================================================================= To unsubscribe from this list, go to www.freelists.org and logon to your account (the same e-mail address and password you set-up when you subscribed,) and unsubscribe from there.