** Forum Nasional Indonesia PPI India Mailing List ** ** Untuk bergabung dg Milis Nasional kunjungi: ** Situs Milis: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ppiindia/ ** ** Beasiswa dalam negeri dan luar negeri S1 S2 S3 dan post-doctoral scholarship, kunjungi http://informasi-beasiswa.blogspot.com **Netters, Terlampir bersama ini saya kutip Harian Mainichi tgl. 8 Maret 2006, yang memberitakan bahwa di Indonesia bila bercium-ciuman di tempat umum, menperlihatkan bahagian badan yang "sensual" dari wanita bisa dikenakan denda US$ 100.000 dan hukuman penjara 10 tahun. Selain itu juga sebuah artikel bernada protest terhadap seorang kakek berumur 70 tahun di Arab Saudia yang menikah dengan seorang anak wanita berumur 12 tahun di Arab News, terbitan Arab Saudia yang konservatif. Sebagai tambahan informasi dapat juga diberitahukan bahwa di negeri-negeri yang menurut katagori kaum surgawi Indonesia nan suci murni adalah kafir tidak bermoral, bila mengadakan hubungan sexual dengan anak yang berumur 12 adalah perbuatan pedofil yang dikriminalisasikan oleh undang-undang negara kafir. Di Indonesia sekarang sedang hangat diperdebatkan undang-undang RUU antipornografi, tentu sekali yang yang pro undang-undang tsb adalah kaum agama surgawi nan suci nan moralis, hal ini tidak berarti bahwa yang anti RUU tidak bermoral, cuma penoropangannya dari segi lain misalnya komersial, tradisi, kebebasan berexpresi dalam seni dsbnya. Saya agak tercengang membaca RUU anti pronografi, teristimewa pada pasal 17: "Dewasa adalah seseorang yang telah berusia 12 (dua betas) tahun keatas ". Sambil mengatakan: "Hebat NKRI"! Saya merasa sangat ketinggalan zaman modern Indonesia bahwa boleh bersetubuh dengan anak perempuan yang berumur 12 tahun, saya pun bertanya dalam hati apakah para petinggi negara dan aparatur legislatif maupun yudikatif maupun dewan-dewan agama adalah pedofil? Wassalam, ++++ Harian Mainichi tgl. 8 Maret 2006 menulis : In addition to forbidding pornography, it calls for prison terms of up to 10 years and fines of up to US$100,000 for kissing in public, exposure of a woman's "sensual" body parts and the display of "erotic" artworks. (AP) ++++ http://www.arabnews.com/?page=13§ion=0&article=78820&d=10&m=3&y=2006 Tuesday, 7, March, 2006 (06, Safar, 1427) Marriage at an Early Age Jerman Ahmed Al-Shihry . Al-Madinah When the Prophet, peace be upon him, first married Khadijah bint Khuwalid, he was 25 years old and she was 40. Later, when he married Aisha, he was 45 and she was only 9. Age differences in the Prophet's cases were not meant to serve the purpose of enjoying various women or merely tasting the pleasures of the flesh. The women were chosen by him in order to comply with the religion that is meant to organize the Muslim Ummah and provide what is permitted instead of encouraging what is forbidden. Who was the husband of Khadijah and Aisha? He was the best of human being and the seal of all prophets. Any woman living at that time would have been happy to have been chosen by the Prophet as his wife. I am writing this article after one I read in Al-Watan newspaper, entitled "70-year-old man marries 12-year-old girl in Asir." The article said that the employees in the Asir Medical Center were shocked when a 70-year-old man and a 12-year-old girl came for a blood test in order to marry. I must say I wonder if any of us have the right to compare ourselves and our actions to anything done by our beloved Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him. The answer of course is absolutely not! There are no comparisons or similarities and it's simply wrong for such old men to marry young girls - and justify their doing so by saying that their role model is the Prophet. They are conveniently forgetting to mention the enormous difference between his sublime purpose and their own twisted desires. In our materialistic world, we witness many marriages of this kind which are harmful to the Muslim family. When old men marry young girls, there are social disadvantages and the possibility of crimes. We shouldn't allow someone so old to possess a young girl or woman just to satisfy her male guardian's avariciousness. We shouldn't wonder about the unpleasant reactions the young girl might have - whether to herself or to the old man she's married to. If she commits a crime, then we are the ones responsible. I would prefer to have my daughter with a young man who is nearly dead than with one who is old and nearly dead. When the poor girl wakes up from this horrible nightmare, she may well take violent revenge on anyone. And when she does, she must not be blamed; it is we who are responsible and we who must take responsibility for the calamity. [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] *************************************************************************** Berdikusi dg Santun & Elegan, dg Semangat Persahabatan. Menuju Indonesia yg Lebih Baik, in Commonality & Shared Destiny. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ppiindia *************************************************************************** __________________________________________________________________________ Mohon Perhatian: 1. Harap tdk. memposting/reply yg menyinggung SARA (kecuali sbg otokritik) 2. Pesan yg akan direply harap dihapus, kecuali yg akan dikomentari. 3. Reading only, http://dear.to/ppi 4. Satu email perhari: ppiindia-digest@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 5. 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