On Friday, July 4, 2014 4:24 PM, Yerm <beingqua@xxxxxxxxx> wrote: ---------- Forwarded message ---------- From: talmcomm <talmcomm@xxxxxxxxxxx> Date: Tue, Jul 1, 2014 at 6:12 PM Subject: Fw: Fw: Fwd: My column in ISRAEL HAYOM today: Modeling faith and love To: ----- Original Message ----- From: Bayla Gold To: דניאל וחוי קניגסברג Sent: Tuesday, July 01, 2014 5:54 PM Subject: Fwd: Fw: Fwd: My column in ISRAEL HAYOM today: Modeling faith and love > >Modeling faith and love >The Fraenkel, Shaer and Yifrach families modeled for us spiritual strength >and brotherly love. > >By David M. Weinberg > >Published in Israel Hayom, July 1, 2014. > >So it turns out that the families of Naftali Fraenkel, Gilad Shaer and Eyal >Yifrach knew almost from the beginning of this ordeal that one or two of the >three boys were likely to have been killed in the course of the kidnapping on >June 12. > >There were gunshots on the recording of the SOS call made by Gilad, which was >played for the families. There were bullet casings and blood found in the >burnt shell of the getaway car, and the families were told this too. > >They were told that the lack of demands from the kidnappers was a sign that >the boys might no longer be alive. > >And yet all three families exuded optimism, faith and positive energy for 18 >long days. They went before camera and after camera, reporter after reporter, >concert after concert, and prayer assembly after prayer assembly, and >asserted their confidence that just a bit more effort could bring a positive >result. They met every youth group, every foreign diplomat, every UN >assembly, every IDF commander they could, thanking everybody for their >efforts, in their upbeat, affirming and unassuming way. > >What amazing people! What noble people! How they raised the spirits of an >entire nation; united an entire nation; comforted an entire nation! > >They taught us how to harness all our temporal powers to drive towards a >national goal in unison. They taught us all what it means to believe in >powers greater than our own. > >Perhaps the most profound thought uttered over the past three weeks was >expressed by Racheli Fraenkel at the Western Wall last week. In a clip shown >on Israeli television, and seen I think by just about every person in this >country, Mrs. Fraenkel is approached at the Wall by a group of very young >girls who want to wish her well. > >Instead, Mrs. Fraenkel bends down to them and offers theological reassurance >and warm wisdom. “I want you to promise me,” she softly says, “that no matter >what happens, you won’t be crushed or broken. That you won’t lose faith. >After all, we must remember that G-d isn’t our ‘employee.’ He doesn’t always >do as we wish.” > >With these crushingly humble words, Racheli Fraenkel captured the hearts of >an entire nation. Her words resounded through every living room and every >workplace. People repeated them, reflected upon them, debated them. Agree or >disagree, nobody could deny her strength of spirit. Nobody could avoid being >awestruck at her clear-sightedness; at her breathtaking display of faith >within realism. > >As I stood at midnight last night outside the Fraenkel home (down the street >from my home in Nof Ayalon), Naftali’s uncle Yishai Fraenkel shared with me >that behind the mask of embarrassed smiles and sunny demeanor we saw on our >television screens, Racheli Fraenkel was being torn apart. “Inside the house, >she doesn’t smile. Inside the house, inside her soul, she is dealing with a >great personal burden of pain. And of course, she must simultaneously be >mother to her other children. She may be a superwoman, but she has no >super-natural powers. She says that she draws strength from the People of >Israel; from the outpouring of care and prayer that has come from all corners >of the Jewish world.” > >Such modesty aside, I feel that Mrs. Fraenkel and the other five now-bereaved >parents modeled for us not just indomitable personal character. They modeled >for us spiritual strength; a healthy blend of religious devotion and >rationality. Of this world-ness and other-world-ness. Of pragmatism and >values. Of self-interest and selflessness. Of coolly calculated tactics and >naturally-flowing love. > >They gave Israelis a model for religious commitment, national unity and >brotherly love not only in times of crisis but also in everyday life; >throughout all regular seasons of our rough-and-tumble >spiritual-social-political life. > >For this, we are in their debt. > >