Not sure if I sent the first one to the right place. Hi All, Hope this finds everyone good. Lucy, have you recovered from your surgery? Karen, have you healed up yet? I know you both have had a rough go here lately. Kathi, has Chris gotten back from Germany? Is Ron here yet? I have finally spent some time researching gravestones for Mom. I know it's not something any of us want to do, but, I think it's important to do this before much more time goes by. I have been trough many websites and finally found some that will ship free from anywhere and the websites have pictures. I don't know who will lay it if we order if from one of these places. Maybe there is someone at the cemetery that does them? I'm not real sure. I can find that out with a little more research. I think when Courtney passed, I just went over and chose something, but to be honest, I don't remember if the makers set them or the cemetery does. Also, they may possibly have a choice of stones at the cemetery. I know Klein Memorial had a room you could go to and pick one out. I definitely chose NOT to go in there at the time. But I haven't been able to get any pictures from them on their websites. I think they only allow the flat markers in the part where she is. I didn't see any upright ones except in the center. Can check with them, maybe Monday or Tuesday. So, here are a few links: http://www.tributedirect.com/flat_grave_markers.html I like TD-FM3, AND TD-FM1 (TD-FM13 also looks nice). TD-IB8 is very nice too if we decide to go bronze. http://www.memorials.com/headstones.php There are some nice ones on this page too On this site you can chose the writing on it, they make it and send to you. http://www.affordable-markers.com/flash/index.htm Please let me know what ya'll think as to type, enscription, etc and I can narrow it down a little more. Or let me know if this isn't something you want to do right now. Love ya'll Sandy _________________________________________________________________ Windows Live™: Keep your life in sync. http://windowslive.com/explore?ocid=PID23384::T:WLMTAGL:ON:WL:en-US:NF_BR_sync:082009