Okay -- 3 or 4 responses didn't tell me much, but at least I'm not alone in being clueless <g>. My 6th grader brought home a note from Middle School telling parents that adults had become aware that girls were wearing different coloured jelly bracelets and that for the students the colours were "codes". I'd noticed these jelly bracelets and thought them cute baubles. Depending on which colour bracelet a boy "snapped" the girl wearing it was obliged to perform a sexual act. The teachers confiscated the bracelets and sent home the note. My 12 yr old told me she knew nothing about the color coding until her teacher explained to the class why she had taken the bracelets from the kids. My husband was reading the note and and said aloud "jelly bracelets"? My 10 year old 4th grader who was walking through the room stopped and said, "You mean sex bracelets?". When I managed to stammer "What?" she told me that in her school (elementary school, yes) some girls wear bracelets called "sex bracelets" and if a boy snaps a colour the girl has to do something -- pink is kissing, red is french kissing, black is "doing it", etc. I asked how she knew this. She said everyone knew it and if I wanted I could look at sexbraclets.com! Apparently the children use it to learn the colour code. Then she asked me if it was "true" that those colours meant those things. I'll be mentioning this phenomenon to the principal at the grade school who is, I'm sure, as clueless as I was. Sure enough, there is such a web site, which among other things advertises sex toys and does give a guide -- one of the colours is for oral sex. The note that came home indicates that this is a phenomena that originated in high school and has trickled down. I was curious to know if this is wide-spread in grade & middle school or a local thing; if I were alone in naive innocence. Julie Krueger ceaslessly appalled ========Original Message======== Subj:[lit-ideas] Re: jelly bracelets Date:5/8/2004 7:07:57 AM Central Daylight Time From:JulieReneB@xxxxxxx To:lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent on: You can have full credit if you mail me two boxes of kleenex. Will you give me partial credit for this question, teacher? Julie ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html