[lit-ideas] Re: grades & kleenex

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  • Date: Fri, 7 May 2004 03:38:55 +0100

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Jane Austen and other famous authors violate what everyone learned in their
English class
"What did you bring that book that I don't like to be read to out of up
-- child to parent.
"I believe it's strictly a matter between the patient and his doctor."
-- senator Hayakawa opines upon the subject of abortion.
"The sample for resume stock is missing, because sadly enough, someone
brought it upon themself to steal it."
-- notice posted at UCSC copy center, summer 1991.
"No mother should be forced by federal prosecutors to testify against their
-- Monica L.'s mother's lawyer.

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The singular "they"/"their"/"them"/"themselves" construction.
A brief history of singular "their" (etc.)
Singular "their" (etc.) and linguistic sexism in English
Conditions on the use of singular "their"
The singular "their" (etc.) construction in Jane Austen.
List of examples of singular "their" etc. from Jane Austen's writings.
Examples from Emma.
Examples from Mansfield Park.
Examples from Northanger Abbey.
Examples from Persuasion.
Examples from Pride and Prejudice.
Examples from Sense and Sensibility.
Examples from Jack & Alice.
Examples from The Visit: A Comedy in 2 Acts.
Examples from The Three Sisters.
Examples from Scraps ("The female philosopher -- A Letter")
Examples from The Watsons.
Examples from the Opinions of "Mansfield Park".
Examples from Jane Austen's Letters.
Does Jane Austen also use the generic masculine?
Examples of singular "their" etc. from the OED and elsewhere.
Entries: "they", "them", "themselves", "their", "nobody", "everyone",
"everybody", "one", "each", "who", "whoever", "whoso",
Non-OED examples,
Examples from Lewis Carroll's Alice books.
Selective bibliography on singular "their", generic masculine, etc.


The singular "they"/"their"/"them"/"themselves" construction
These files contain a list of over 75 occurrences of the words
"they"/"their"/"them"/"themselves" referring to a singular antecedent with
indefinite or generic meaning in Jane Austen's writings (mainly in her six
novels), as well as further examples of singular "their" etc. from the
Oxford English Dictionary (OED) and elsewhere. While your high-school
English teacher may have told you not to use this construction, it actually
dates back to at least the 14th century, and was used by the following
authors (among others) in addition to Jane Austen: Geoffrey Chaucer, Edmund
Spenser, William Shakespeare, the King James Bible, The Spectator, Jonathan
Swift, Daniel Defoe, Frances Sheridan, Oliver Goldsmith, Henry Fielding,
Maria Edgeworth, Percy Shelley, Lord Byron, William Makepeace Thackeray, Sir
Walter Scott, George Eliot [Mary Anne Evans], Charles Dickens, Mrs. Gaskell,
Anthony Trollope, John Ruskin, Robert Louis Stevenson, Walt Whitman, George
Bernard Shaw, Lewis Carroll, Oscar Wilde, Rudyard Kipling, H. G. Wells, F.
Scott Fitzgerald, Edith Wharton, W. H. Auden, Lord Dunsany, George Orwell,
and C. S. Lewis.

 Singular "their" etc., was an accepted part of the English language before
the 18th-century grammarians started making arbitrary judgements as to what
is "good English" and "bad English", based on a kind of pseudo-"logic"
deduced from the Latin language, that has nothing whatever to do with
English. (See the 1975 journal article by Anne Bodine in the bibliography.)
And even after the old-line grammarians put it under their ban, this
anathematized singular "their" construction never stopped being used by
English-speakers, both orally and by serious literary writers. So it's time
for anyone who still thinks that singular "their" is so-called "bad grammar"
to get rid of their prejudices and pedantry!

A brief history of singular "their" (etc.)
The following is a brief potted history of this construction:

In Old English, the masculine gender was used as the "unmarked" default for
some purposes, but the problem of which pronouns to use with an indefinite
singular antecedent (which can refer to both men and women) did not exist in
quite the same way that it does in more recent English. This is because in
Old English there was a system of arbitrary "grammatical gender", in which
nouns were assigned a gender which was often independent of the biological
sex (if any) of the noun's referent (as also happens in modern German,
French etc.), and articles, demonstratives, and adjectives (as well as third
person singular pronouns) all took on different forms according to the
grammatical gender of the noun words they accompanied. It was apparently in
early Middle English, with the transition to a system of "natural gender"
(in which the third person singular pronouns are almost the only surviving
linguistic markers of gender, and they are basically used in accordance with
the biological sex of the referents of their antecedent nouns), that there
arose the pronominal "generic masculine" construction as such -- in which it
is only by a separate convention (somewhat isolated from regular rules of
pronoun agreement) that masculine pronouns are used in sentences of the type
"Everybody loves his own mother".

However, not long afterwards the "singular their" construction ("Everybody
loves their own mother") also came into existence, and is attested starting
in the late 1300's. So from the fourteenth century on, both "singular their"
and the pronominal generic masculine existed in English, and were two
competing solutions for the same problem.

From then on, "singular their" was used without much inhibition (see the
examples from the OED) and was not generally considered "bad grammar". It is
true that starting in the 16th century, when English grammar began to be a
subject of study, some rules of Latin grammar were applied to English; and
that the Latin-based rules of grammatical agreement might have been seen as
forbidding the English singular "their" construction -- if they were
interpreted in a certain linguistically naive way. (This may explain why
certain classical-language-influenced authors, such as the translators of
the King James Bible, tended to use singular "their" somewhat
infrequently -- but see Phillipians 2:3.) However, the earliest specific
condemnation of singular "their" that Bodine was able to find (in her 1975
article) dated only from 1795 (more than two centuries after English grammar
started being taught, and at least several decades after the beginning of
the 18th century "grammar boom").

So it seems that it was only in the late 18th century or early 19th century,
when prescriptive grammarians started attacking singular "their" because
this didn't seem to them to accord with the "logic" of the Latin language,
that it began to be more or less widely taught that the construction was bad
grammar. The prohibition against singular "their" then joined the other
arbitrary prescriptions created from naive analogies between English and
Latin -- such as the prohibition against ending a sentence with a

But through the 19th and 20th centuries, singular "their" has still
continued to be used by a number of even somewhat "literary" authors, as
well as commonly in the speech of even many educated individuals.

It is interesting that almost as soon as the banning of singular "their" by
grammarians and schoolteachers had gained some degree of acceptance (making
many feel that the singular "their" construction was out of place in
writing), some people began feeling dissatisfaction with the other
alternatives which were permitted by the arbitrary edicts of prescriptive
grammarians. So already in 1808/1809, noted author Samuel Taylor Coleridge
seems to have rejected "generic masculine" he in some cases (as not being
appropriately gender-neutral) -- and since he apparently did not consider
singular "their" to be permissible, and probably felt that "he or she" was
too cumbersome (especially in repetition), he settled on "it" as the only
available solution, as discussed in the following passage:

QUARE -- whether we may not, nay ought not, to use a neutral pronoun,
relative or representative, to the word "Person", where it hath been used in
the sense of homo, mensch, or noun of the common gender, in order to avoid
particularising man or woman, or in order to express either sex
indifferently? If this be incorrect in syntax, the whole use of the word
Person is lost in a number of instances, or only retained by some stiff and
strange position of the words, as -- "not letting the person be aware
wherein offense has been given" -- instead of -- "wherein he or she has
offended". In my [judgment] both the specific intention and general etymon
of "Person" in such sentences fully authorise the use of it and which
instead of he, she, him, her, who, whom.
-- Anima Poeta: From the Unpublished Note-Books of Samuel Taylor Coleridge,
edited by Ernest Hartley Coleridge (1895), p. 190. ["Homo" and "mensch" are
Latin and German words which mean `man' in a general sex-neutral sense, as
opposed to "vir" and "mann", which mean `man' in the specifically masculine

Similarly, dissatisfaction with generic "he" and the other
prescriptively-allowed alternatives led to proposals for neologistic English
gender-neutral singular human pronoun words beginning in the mid-nineteenth
century, as can be seen at Dennis Baron's "Word that Failed" page.

Singular "their" and linguistic sexism in English
Recently, various new constructions or new words have been proposed to
mitigate perceived English linguistic sexism; these are innovations, and
must be evaluated as such. But singular "their" (etc.) is not an innovation,
but old established good usage. So here anti-sexism and traditional English
usage go hand-in-hand -- and those who object to singular "their" can find
no support from history, linguistics, or the aim of inclusive language.

Already in 1894, the famed grammarian and linguist Otto Jespersen (who was
decidedly not a feminist himself) wrote in his book Progress in Language:
With Special Reference to English (?24) that "it is at times a great
inconvenience to be obliged to specify the sex of the person spoken about.
[...] if a personal pronoun of common gender was substituted for he in such
a proposition as this: `It would be interesting if each of the leading poets
would tell us what he considers his best work', ladies would be spared the
disparaging implication that the leading poets were all men." (so that it
can hardly be claimed that a concern about such matters is only a recent
outgrowth of 1970's feminism or so-called "PC" ideology).

Conditions on the use of singular "their" etc.
Contrary to what some people apparently believe -- that as soon as speakers
deviate in the slightest degree from the prescriptive rules inculcated in
schools, the English language then begins to spontaneously degenerate into a
chaos of incoherent mumbles -- there are actually clearly-defined patterns
in the use of singular "their" etc. Such plural pronouns can only be used
with a morphologically and syntactically singular antecedent when what it
refers to is semantically collective and/or generic and/or indefinite and/or
unknown. (A lack of knowledge about the gender of what is referred to, or an
"epicene" reference to both genders or indefinitely to either, will in many
cases help to make the use of singular "their" sound acceptable, by
contributing to such semantic indeterminacy; however, note that unspecified
gender is actually neither a necessary or sufficient condition for use of
singular "their" -- see below for non-"epicene" examples of this

Where singular "their" cannot be used is when referring to a
strongly-individualized single person about whom there is some specific
information. So the following attempt at pronominal reference would fail,
even if one did not know (or did not wish to reveal) the sex of "Chris":
"Chris was born on February, 25th 1963, the youngest of three siblings, is 5
feet 9 inches tall with red hair, graduated from Slippery Rock college, is
currently working as an accountant, has never married, and is fond of
listening to jazz. They..." (This shows that singular "they"/"them"/"their"
cannot be used in all cases of unknown or indefinite gender.)

These semantic factors are gradient, which is why some speakers find "their"
etc. which refers back to an indefinite pronoun such as "anybody" more
acceptable than cases of "their" etc. referring back to a singular concrete
noun. So in the great majority of cases in Jane Austen's writings, singular
"their" has indefinite pronouns or quantifier words as its antecedent; there
are also a few cases of "a person", "any young person", and "any man" as the
antecedent, but no cases of a more specific noun phrase as the antecedent
(except perhaps one case of "any acquaintance" embedded in a parallel
coordinate construction). (It is significant that in one of the two cases I
have found of the generic masculine construction in Jane Austen the
antecedent is "the reader", with a definite article and a concrete noun.)

Go to a linguistic and logical discussion of singular their by Steven Pinker

The singular "their" (etc.) construction in Jane Austen
"And this, too, she calls a frolic, or in her own vulgar language, fun."
-- Lady Delacour in Chapter IV of Maria Edgeworth's Belinda
Jane Austen's attitude towards singular "their" is shown by the fact that
she uses it even in the narration of her novels -- it is conspicuously not
confined to the quoted speech of vulgar and ignorant characters, in the way
that certain other constructions in Jane Austen are.

For example, phrases of the type "me and..." are used as the subject of a
verb only by characters such as Lydia Bennet of Pride and Prejudice ("Kitty
and me were to spend the day there... Mrs. Forster and me are such
friends!", "...as we went along, Kitty and me drew up all the blinds, and
pretended there was nobody in the coach", all from Chapter 39); Lucy Steele
of Sense and Sensibility ("...my sister and me was often staying with our
uncle..." from Chapter 22, and "Ann and me are to go, the latter end of
January, to some relations who have been wanting us to visit them these
several years" from Chapter 24); and Mrs. Elton of Emma ("Neither Mr.
Suckling nor me had ever any patience with them; and we used sometimes to
say very cutting things!", from Chapter 38). Similarly, the word "fun" is
only used once by John Thorpe in Northanger Abbey and eight times by Lydia
Bennet of Pride and Prejudice, and the main users of "ain't" are Nancy
Steele and Mrs. Jennings of Sense and Sensibility.

It's also interesting that in several of the examples (they are pointed out
in the list), singular "their" refers to each of several women, and so was
not used to express gender-neutrality. The reason for this is that singular
"their" can serve as a general way of expressing indefiniteness, which need
not have anything whatever to do with gender-neutrality. So for example,
Shakespeare wrote "There's not a man I meet but doth salute me / As if I
were their well-acquainted friend" (Comedy of Errors, Act IV Scene 3), and
in Mrs. Gaskell's 1855 novel North and South, a male character says "I was
never aware of any young lady trying to catch me [i.e. matrimonially], nor
do I believe that anyone has ever given themselves that useless trouble".

The total number of occurrences of singular "their" etc. found in Austen's
six novels was 75, distributed as follows (see also the more detailed

Full-length (three-volume) novels:
Mansfield Park: 24
Emma: 14
Sense and Sensibility: 12
Pride and Prejudice: 12
"Half-length" (two-volume) novels:
Northanger Abbey: 7
Persuasion: 6


Go to List of examples of singular "their" etc. from Jane Austen's writings
Go to List of examples of singular "their" etc. from the OED and elsewhere


Selective bibliography on singular "their", generic masculine, etc.
This is a selective condensation and rearrangment of a posting on the
LINGUIST mailing list:

Date: Thu, 29 Apr 93 18:43:25 PDT
From: (Johanna Rubba)
Subject: Summary: Language and gender
What follows is a list of references that were sent to me by various
individuals on the subject of language and gender, especially the problem of
`generic' or epicene pronouns.

Abbott, Gerry. "Unisex `they'", English Language Teaching Journal, 1984. 38,
Baron, Dennis. Grammar and Gender, Chapter 10. 1986. New Haven: Yale
University Press.
Bodine, Anne. "Androcentrism in Prescriptive Grammar: Singular `they',
Sex-indefinite `he', and `he or she'", Language in Society, 1975. 4,
articles "Agreement: indefinite pronouns" and "They, their, them" in E. Ward
Gilman ed. Webster's Dictionary of English Usage. 1989. Springfield
Massachusetts: Merriam-Webster.
Green, W. H. "Singular Pronouns and Sexual Politics", College Composition
and Communication, 1977. 28, 150-153.
Hofstadter, Douglas R. "Changes in Default Words and Images, Engendered by
Rising Consciousness" and "A Person Paper on Purity in Language", Chapters 7
and 8 in Metamagical Themas: Questing for the Essence of Mind and Pattern,
136-167. 1985. New York: Basic Books.
Jespersen, Otto. Section 5.56 in A Modern English Grammar on Historical
Principles. Part II: Syntax, First Volume, 137-140, addenda p. 495. 1913
Korsmeyer, Carolyn. "The Hidden Joke: Generic Uses of Masculine
Terminology", in Mary Vetterling-Braggin ed. Sexist Language: A Modern
Philosophical Analysis, 116-31. 1981. New Jersey: Littlefield, Adams & Co.
Martyna, Wendy. "The Psychology of the Generic Masculine", in Sally
McConnell-Ginet, Ruth Borker, and Nelly Furman, eds. Women and Language in
Literature and Society, 69-78. 1980. New York: Praeger.
Meyers, Miriam Watkins. "Forms of they with Singular Noun Phrase
Antecedents", Word, 1993. 44 181-191.
Miller, Casey and Kate Swift. Words and Women. 1976. Garden City, New York:
Muhlhausler, Peter and Rom Harre. "He, She, or It: The Enigma of Grammatical
Gender", Chapter 9 in Pronouns and People: The Linguistic Construction of
Social and Personal Identity, 229-247. 1991. Basil Blackwell.
Newman, Michael. "Pronominal Disagreements: The Stubborn Problem of Singular
Epicene Antecedents", Language in Society, 1992. 21, 447-475.
Pinker, Steven. The Language Instinct, 378-379. 1994. New York: W. Morrow.
Sklar, E. S. "The Tribunal of Use: Agreement in Indefinite Constructions",
College Composition and Communication, 1988. 39, 410-422.
Stanley, J. P. "Sexist Grammar", College English, 1978. 39, 800-811.
(A summary on the "generic masculine" and related issues in English, with
some further references, is available on-line as section 5 of the paper "Why
there are so few Female Computer Scientists" by Ellen Spertus.)


"Singular their":
I have chosen to use this term, even though it may be slightly misleading
(since "singular" they, their etc. are not really clearly semantically
singular in most cases, and so-called "singular" they still takes plural
verb agreement). However, this terminology does describe, in a
rough-and-ready way, the basic phenomenon (i.e. the pronouns they/them/their
referring back to a syntactically singular antecedent, such as anyone). The
term "singular their" is to be preferred over certain alternative names,
such as "epicene their" or "common-gender their", not only since the
pronouns they/them/their are already inherently and fundamentally "epicene"
or "common-gender" in their normal plural usage, but also because these
terms tend to convey the false and misleading impression that singular their
etc. is only used in cases that refer to uncertain gender, or to both
genders simultaneously. (That this last is far from being the case can be
seen from the unambiguously feminine cases in Jane Austen and the
unambiguously masculine quotation from Shakespeare etc. cited above.)
Note that I have called the whole phenomenon "singular their" rather than
"singular they", both because the term "singular they" would cause confusion
between number in coreference and syntactic number (i.e. one would expect
that "singular they" should take singular verb agreement), and because in
this construction the word their tends to have a higher frequency of
occurrence in texts than do the other forms of the pronoun (they, them,
themselves); in the examples from Jane Austen, 63 occurrences of their(s)
were found, 27 examples of they, and 19 occurrences of them(selves).
The list of authors using singular "their":
For citations from these authors see, among other sources, the relevant
entries from the Oxford English Dictionary; and the examples and references
to further sources given in the works in the bibliography, especially those
by Jespersen and Bodine.
(On the other hand, a search of an e-text of Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
failed to turn up a single example of this construction.)

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Judy Evans

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Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: grades & kleenex

on 5/6/04 5:17 PM, Judith Evans at judithevans001@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx wrote:

> I said the teacher's words were
> "an attempt, albeit flawed, to cope with the problem." and
> "'They' third person singular is perfectly acceptable, and not only of
> late."
> That you read this as an endorsement of
>> He/she agreeing with "they"?
> is perhaps your problem.
Could you provide an example of the acceptable use you have in mind?

What is he/she if not third person singular?  And if it is replaced in a
second iteration in a sentence with "they," I would say there is a problem
of agreement.  What am I not understanding?

David Ritchie
Portland, Oregon

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