> "Can you see the vision, can you see young women > walking down the street of Newark, New Jersey, with long flowing hijab and > long dresses?" > ck: This is a vision? This is just about any street in Fresno today! Muslim-owned stores abound, in all neighborhoods. There's a mosque down the street from the university, and a number of them throughout town. (More mosques than synagogues, but more churches then either by a factor of at least 10.) The Islamic cultural center of Fresno regularly sponsors community activities, advertising in the newspaper and on NPR. A woman in hadj-wear works at the local B&N. (Ask her about the divorce she's ploying. [To ploy--to plan, secretly. Synonym: emotional ruse, or plot.] ) Talking politics with acquaintances is not generally done, in this environment. As long as we all remain superficially friendly and helpful to one another, we get along just fine. And I wonder, if that all that's needed, everywhere? Tolerance means getting along on a superficial level. It means, apparently, respecting otherness to the degree that nobody is harassed, and nobody brags, either, about that otherness. (This is my culture--partake of it pleasantly or leave us the fuck alone.) What's beyond the surface of clothing and obvious differences? In a multicultural mosaic of a place, you won't get to know that unless you disturb the balance by, say, marrying in. I just wonder if Fresno's casual hadj-wearing is so surprising to the rest of America (not talking about NYC, obviously). Loads of sari-wearing here, too. Me, I'll stick to my comfy, homemade, middle-aged humanistic- feminist-don't-give-me-religious-crap, drapy look. Lots of beads. Carol ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html