Who was it who said if women ran the world no one would die, everyone would just get hurt really badly once a month....? I have a little book of womens' quotations somewhere and it's in there, but ....little objects have disappeared since my daughter's bedroom is on my dining room table.... Julie Krueger ========Original Message======== Subj: [lit-ideas] The Fully Feminine? Date: 3/19/05 1:58:25 P.M. Central Standard Time From: _eyost1132@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx (mailto:eyost1132@xxxxxxxxxxxxx) To: _lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx (mailto:lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx) Sent on: MN: feminist science fiction -- a imagined civilization in which everyone's position is: "Go to war? Are you nuts? A child might get hurt." ______ Just to get everybody's goat, I note that Milan Kundera, in _Immortality_ makes the point that, if women ran wars, there would be nobody on earth left alive. It's all well and good to stress nurturing femininity, but the shadow femininity, the Medea side, is quite operational too. Hell hath no fury like a woman . . . well you get the idea. Sure, in these lands of patriarchy men start wars and women endure them, but women are not pure buttercups either. I don't understand the impulse to idealize women as nurturing benevolence incarnate. It feels as if one loopy pedestal is being exchanged for another. That doesn't even leave room for the darker side of nurturing, as in Brecht's _Mother Courage_. ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html