AA: > Most of fate is very much in our hands. If fate is defined as the inexorable operation of ineluctable laws, then fate can't be in our hands whatsoever. If you're standing in the path of an oncoming bullet, then the most loving parents in the world can't influence that. I have no idea to what degree determinism 'determines' our lives. You apparently give it a high priority otherwise you'd not proselytize for 'good parenting' as the panacea for war and crime and human misery in general. You cause and effect seems strictly binding to me. But if determinism does rule the day as you seem to suggest, then you're just pissing in the wind with your 'good parenting' advocacy, because those who abuse their children must be fated to do so. By the same token, so would you be fated to proselytize as you do. So I guess you can't help it. Too much good parenting can be a tiresome thing. But maybe we're not determined. Perhaps we are agents acting variously freely in the world. Are we? I dunno, as JL might say. And what does it matter, after all? We don't have any choice but to live our lives as though we are creatures of free will. Decisions must be made, choices chosen -- whether those decisions are pre-ordained by our history and genetic make-up and those damn butterflies in Brazil, we'll never know, because there is no way to ever know. And besides, who cares? Mike Geary Memphis PS, Yes Stan, Rowan & Martin's "Fickle Finger of Fate Award" was what I first named the thread, but then death seemed not so fickle as final so I changed it. I should have called it Fate's Final Fingering.