Julie wrote: > I'm no longer a professional cheerio remover, but a full > time chauffeur. No one warned me about this. You know what being the mother of a teenager is like? It's like this from Denise Levertov: <><><><> After I had cut off my hands and grown new ones something my former hands had longed for came and asked to be rocked. After my plucked out eyes had withered, and new ones grown something my former eyes had wept for came asking to be pitied. <><><><> It's like looking at myself as I was at the same age (just yesterday!) - identifying with what I'm seeing in a remotely aching sort of way but feeling alienated and (usually) totally unsympathetic at the same time. >.....and then reading of > goats tied to chairs. I can't believe you remember that! All best, MN ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html