And Stan, m'man, you should be happy that your daughter gets offended. That means she cares, at least a little, about what you think. Would you prefer it if she told you to shut up and take your wasted, outdated critique elsewhere? I think not. There are always cheery critiques, you know. All roses in Toronto, Erin > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Stan Spiegel" <writeforu2@xxxxxxxxxxx> > To: <lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > Sent: Sunday, June 27, 2004 5:51 PM > Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: Taste of the pseudo-serious Poetaster > > > > Hey Mike! I just noticed that last line of yours: "I refuse to take my > stuff > > seriously enough to talk about it." > > Wow! You remind me of my daughter who thinks she's serious about writing > > fiction, but unless I'm simply a cheerleader, she gets offended. Critiques > > are anathema, just praise. Just give her praise. > > > > You show courage by exposing your work to us. But don't you expect us to > be > > as analytical about your work as we are about George W. Bush's or Michael > > Moore's? > > > > I hope this doesn't stop you from sending us your Sunday work, but do you > > expect us to change our stripes just because we admire your willingness to > > make yourself vulnerable in the public square? (I think that was the > > underlying expectation, now that I think about it.) I'm caught in a trap > > now. I don't know which way to turn. Should I just shut up? ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html