In a message dated 12/30/2005 4:52:52 A.M. Central Standard Time, JimKandJulieB@xxxxxxx writes: I always wondered what a conversation between Don Quixote & Camu would be like.... Dear Julie, HOW can you (and some others) say so much in so few of words! Hmpf, though! Camus is so much more a romantic figure than Don Quixote! (Though at an impressionable age, Irene/Andy obviously didn't have a parent who, during a melodramatic stage in life as a typical teen who bemoans the state of the world, tossed Camus across the room at her and asked her to read it. Then asked [after she'd read it], if that was REALLY the sort of world that she wanted to live in... and, um...the answer was ;no' so I got the talk about social responsibility...<g> I do think Irene/Andy missed that phase of growing up [to do her psycho-analyzing about bad parenting thing] or didn't have that sort of parent who paid attention to that phase of teenage angst and so she 'got stuck in it' and is only now coming out of it! But she is--did you see her post?? I'm so excited and am waiting to hear which community organization in her area that she is going to volunteer with and transmute some of that negative energy into positive for the corner of the world that she lives in!) Best, Marlena seeing changes in little things by little people all the time...and thinking of one of the problem solving techniques whereby one makes a list of the problems and then scales them in terms of 1-5 with 5 being the 'biggest' problems which cause stress...and then codes them to match the ease of fixing them from 1-5 with 5 being the hardest Sometimes if you take care of a bunch of level 1s and 2s which are easily fixed...the stress will go down with even less energy (or big people lighting big candles) and so then all that is left to fix are the big problems. Thus, taking care of what you CAN do [ie in your own little corner of the world] actually helps with that whole problem-solving process even on a global scale...