> hank you, Mike. Everyone seems to have immediately understood but me. You > are so good at creating scenes, I couldn't tell whether this was something > that happened twenty years or twenty hours ago ... that is, until other, > more perceptive, people replied to your post. > > Many years ago, I was one of the judges at a poetry slam. Young and > beautiful Nicole Blackman, who had been my friend, read a long, graphic poem > about incest. After the reading, an older woman approached her and thanked > her for revealing her pain, said that she had suffered the same way. Nicole > laughed in the woman's face, said, "Are you kidding? I made that all up!" > and walked away. After that night, Nicole was no longer my friend, > Eric, If I may ask... did you walk away from Nicole because she made it up or because she laughed and dismissed the real sufferer? paul