There was a cover story in either Time or Newsweek not real long ago that said something like "Not Tonight Honey". It was about sex in American marriages and how, contrary to popular belief, Americans aren't having very much sex in marriage. They touched on psychological reasons and their adverse impact on sexuality. I couldn't find it in archives, and they charge anyway. Andy Amago -----Original Message----- From: JulieReneB@xxxxxxx Sent: Jun 3, 2004 11:23 PM To: lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [lit-ideas] "No sex please - we're Japanese" http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&cid=676&e=4&u=/usatoday/nosexpleas ewerejapanese This intrigues me. I'd like opinions re. why this trend in Japan (John?) and such an opposite trend (if in its extreme form it can be called merely a "trend") in the U.S. I am increasingly faced with the sex-ing of life here. My 12 year old 6th grader tells me the 7th grade girls talk routinely about giving blow jobs, she's shown video in "health class" showing computer animated shots of ejaculation from the inside of the penis, my 10 year old shops with me for clothes and can only find tighter than tight belly shirts and extreme hip-huggers. Her size (and she's tiny for her age) clothing is often stamped with printing on the rear-end saying things like "no way no how" or "in your dreams". Little girls emulate Brittany Spears. Advertisements for women's lingerie would have met porn standards a decade ago. Is it that Japan has never had a Woodstock, a total sexual rebellion? It can't be that simple. Julie Krueger thinking of moving her children to Japan as an option to the nearest convent ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html