[lit-ideas] Marriage

  • From: Andy <mimi.erva@xxxxxxxxx>
  • To: lit-ideas <lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • Date: Sun, 13 Nov 2011 06:38:35 -0800 (PST)

We think of marriage as an institution in peril, that in the good old days the 
nuclear family was the norm.  I had read a long time ago however that 
historically marriage was not particularly important as an institution outside 
of essentially political unions.  (Think empire, Hapsburgs, Willie-Nicky 
letters (Kaiser Wilhelm and Czar Nicholas, cousins courtesy of Queen Victoria, 
etc.)  It makes one wonder if the Leave it to Beaver and Father Knows Best type 
shows of the 50's weren't intentionally promoted as well meaning didactic 
fantasies of what life should be like.  Children absolutely need a mother and 
father who don't have conversations with flying plates, but given reality, how 
far that rises above fantasy is debatable, and certainly not just in the U.S.  
Here's an excerpt from that earlier link on pre-code movies in the 30's.  
Truly, there is nothing new under the sun.  
 
"In Pre-Code Hollywood the sex film became synonymous with women's 
pictures—Darryl F. Zanuck once told Wingate that he was ordered by Warner 
Brothers' New York corporate office to reserve 20% of the studio's output for 
"women's pictures, which inevitably means sex pictures."[177] Vice films 
typically tacked on endings where the most sin-filled characters were either 
punished or redeemed. Films explored Code-defying subjects in an unapologetic 
manner with the premise that an end-reel moment could redeem all that had gone 
before.[178] The concept of marriage was often tested in films such as 1931's 
The Prodigal, in which a woman is having an affair with a seedy character, and 
later falls in love with her brother-in-law. When her mother-in-law steps in at 
the end of the film, it is to encourage one son to grant his wife a divorce so 
she can marry his brother, with whom she is obviously in love. The older woman 
proclaims the message of the film in a line
 near the end: "This the twentieth century. Go out into the world and get what 
happiness you can."[179] In Madame Satan (1930), adultery is explicitly 
condoned and used as a sign for a wife that she needs to act in a more enticing 
way to maintain her husband's interest.[180] And in the 1933 film Secrets a 
husband admits to serial adultery, only this time he repents and the marriage 
is saved.[180] The films took aim at what was already a damaged institution. 
During the Great Depression, relations between spouses often deteriorated due 
to financial strain, marriages lessened, and husbands abandoned their families 
in increased numbers.[181] Marriage rates continually declined in the early 
1930s, finally rising in 1934, the final year of the Pre-Code era, and although 
divorce rates lowered, this is likely because desertion was a more likely 
method of separation.[182] Consequently, female characters in pictures such as 
Ruth Chatterton's in Female, live
 promiscuous bachelorette lifestyles, and control their own financial destiny 
(Chatterton supervises an auto factory) without regret.[177]"
 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre-Code_Hollywood
 
Andy

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