For what it's worth, I have always regarded John Wager as a notable exception to the norm. John On Sun, Apr 27, 2008 at 7:58 AM, John Wager <john.wager1@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > John McCreery wrote: > > > An interesting dilemma this morning. How to reply to Eric and Walter, > > whose most recent messages are filled with sentiments with which I wholly > > agree and find most convivial as well? I find myself reflecting on > > conversational habits and wondering why it is so much easier to disagree > > than to build on what someone else has said. It is, somehow, as if agreement > > triggers a full stop--end of story--instead of presenting itself as a > > starting point for further development. > > > In thinking back and looking over my "sent" folder, usually I find myself > NOT replying to a view with a counter-view--it is THESE that seem to be > "full stop" to me, getting nowhere. I think usually I try to add an idea to > one already made, to move the direction that the original poster in the > direction they were already going. > (It just occurs to me this is "judo" email.) > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------ > To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, > digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html > -- John McCreery The Word Works, Ltd., Yokohama, JAPAN Tel. +81-45-314-9324 http://www.wordworks.jp/