"Honesty is the best policy; but he who is governed by that maxim is not an honest man." Whately. ----Julie should perhaps note that Whately was indeed referring to the male gender ('he who', 'an honest man'). Perhaps what he thought was 'the best policy' did not apply, in his view, to _females_? Cheers, JL In a message dated 10/13/2004 5:21:04 AM Eastern Standard Time, JimKandJulieB@xxxxxxx writes: Of course the reason she spoke thus was that she was addressing a man. Men deal much better with denial than truth. Sweeping generalization coming from experience. Julie Krueger ========Original Message======== Subj: [lit-ideas] Kant's antithesis Date: 10/13/04 4:09:30 AM Central Daylight Time From: _bruce@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (mailto:bruce@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx) To: _lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx (mailto:lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx) Sent on: "'I suppose I'll have to tell you all about it,' she said. 'I mean, I'd better tell the truth.' She spoke as if this was always a last distasteful resort instead of a moral obligation." ["She" is the character Helen Missal in Ruth Rendell's _From Doon With Death_] ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html