Just to reassure Omar that I'm not a extraterrestrial, I recognized the refrain. The Police has been a must with me from "Roxanne" forward. My comments were referring to the accomanying poem -- I liked it and thought the use of the refrain clever. But if, as you now tell us, the student was a college student, then the reference to Lolita doesn't seem very apropos. As to Andy's comments: > Not inexperienced is sometimes known as sexual abuse of children, It's also sometimes (and far more commonly) known as "not inexperienced". I dare say most college age women have some experience with sexual pleasure. A sin, I know. And get this, not all children are sexually abused. I know it will come as a shock to Andy, who has never raised a child, but in fact most children are not sexually abused. > Psychohistorically it's suggested that countries have "maturity levels". Suggested by whom? Do you seriously believe that China lacks maturity? > Clearly those who need disparities and power differentials in marriages are > not at the high end of maturity. Clearly? I envy Andy the clarity of his thinking. Mike Geary through a glass darkly ----- Original Message ----- From: "Andy Amago" <aamago@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> To: <lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Sunday, January 28, 2007 9:25 AM Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: Don't Stand So Close to Me > -----Original Message----- >>From: Omar Kusturica <omarkusto@xxxxxxxxx> >>Sent: Jan 27, 2007 8:03 PM >>To: lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >>Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: Don't Stand So Close to Me >> >> >>Actually it's an old song by Police, Mike, but there >>is more. We are talking college and the student is not >>quite so young. Also, we are talking Beijing, China, >>and the student turns out not to be as naive and >>inexperienced as the teacher had believed. O.K. >> > > > Not inexperienced is sometimes known as sexual abuse of children, especially > in a country that historically was not adverse to selling children into > slavery, including sex slavery. Marriages in a lot of the developing world > are basically reenactments of parent-child relationships with the man having > all the power (parent) and the wife having none (child). Large age > discrepancies between partners are common in the developing and third world. > I stand by my statements that she wants a father figure and he can't relate > to someone his own age so he "falls in love" with someone safe. > Psychohistorically it's suggested that countries have "maturity levels". > Clearly those who need disparities and power differentials in marriages are > not at the high end of maturity. > > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------ > To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, > digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html