[lit-ideas] Re: Dog-eared dreaming

  • From: Lawrence Helm <lawrencehelm@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: "vidanovic@xxxxxxxxx" <vidanovic@xxxxxxxxx>, lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Mon, 9 Oct 2017 18:33:53 -0700

George,

Correction:  Got my daughters mixed up.  If you were born in 1953, you are three years older than my oldest daughter.  I was born in 1934 and wrote my previous note after coming back from renewing my drivers license -- thoroughly rattled.  I showed up at the DMV at 08:00 this morning, was standing in a line for 45 minutes, given a number and sat on a hard seat for who knows how long amidst overly heated people and their children, becoming numb, doing mental gymnastics, missed my number being called, had to wait for a few more people, confronted by a push button testing machine which didn't work very well and three hours and forty-five minutes after I walked in handed my temporary license and told I should receive my new one in 8 days.   I drove home, thankfully without mishap but  then accidentally let my happy-to-see-me dogs out the garage door.  They were so excited only one came back when I called, my Rhodesian Ridgeback, Ben.  Telling Ben I wasn't up for this, I closed him in the house, got the leashes for Jessica and Duffy and went out the front thinking my other two, Jessica and Duffy, must be 2 or 3 block away by then, but, they were out in the front yard waiting for me, and, seeing the leashes were convinced I was about to take them for a walk.  I used the leashes to trick them back into the house, still thoroughly rattled and toying with the idea of not going back for another renewal, my next one will be scheduled for 2021, and have everything I need sent to me by Amazon.com.   But that won't work because I need to drive to the trail heads where I take my dogs hiking.  Figuring out some way to just die also occurred to me.

Lawrence, feeling neither poetic nor philosophical at the moment


On 10/9/2017 1:09 PM, Lawrence Helm wrote:


George,

I was tempted after reading your first note to say, "welcome," but being befuddled by not carefully reading all the to and fro of the Philosophical men here in Lit Ideas, I feared I may have missed your earlier note.  In any case I appreciate your presence and your comments.

As to what I might feel about women (plural) going to and fro, I  had to stop and think, and, being influenced by local philosophers I'm not sure I would feel comfortable generalizing.  I'm a feminist in the sense of wanting women to have equal rights an all things not gender specific.  But I am subject to (or at least was once subject to) gender-specific feelings that initially attracted me to one woman and kept on doing so.

High school diploma in 1970?  That makes you one year younger than my youngest daughter. :-) She is very bright and we have the occasional philosophical discussion.  She too stopped her formal education with a High School diploma -- if that is what you are saying.

Lawrence


On 10/9/2017 11:32 AM, vidanovic@xxxxxxxxx wrote:
My name is George in English, and I am acutely aware of how you feel about women going to and fro. Sorry for not making myself clear about that. My whole point was to refer to the tedious boredom that some people create when they talk about someone and dispute some minor or even trite contentions already analyzed in philosophy. Once again, sorry for my obscure metaphorical framework, I was not clear enough, dear Helm. (George Vidanovich, name and surname in my High School diploma from somewhere in IN, USA, back in 1970).

Warm regards



-------- Original Message --------
Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: Dog-eared dreaming
From: Lawrence Helm
To: lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
CC:


    Vidanovic

    It isn’t that I wouldn’t like women around talking of
    Michelangelo, it is that sometimes some old men outlive their
    women and have to go on talking and thinking about other things –
    if they can.

    Lawrence

    *From:*lit-ideas-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
    [mailto:lit-ideas-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] *On Behalf Of
    *vidanovic@xxxxxxxxx
    *Sent:* Monday, October 09, 2017 3:04 AM
    *To:* lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
    *Subject:* [lit-ideas] Re: Dog-eared dreaming

    Lawrence, thanks again for your deeply felt and well-worded
    verses. In this particular context, this was another Prufrock for
    me, because women here just come and go talking of Michelangelo...

    Sent from my Huawei Mobile



    -------- Original Message --------
    Subject: [lit-ideas] Dog-eared dreaming
    From: Lawrence Helm
    To: lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx <mailto:lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
    CC:




        A number of men sat
        ‘Round the table discussing,
        Words.  I heard “philosophy”
        Mentioned, but I mostly
        Heard music that only
        Occasionally let me feel
        Words.  Words that could

        Sing.  There were times I
        Reached or stepped with
        Something that ached; so
        I stopped rather than moved
        On listening to what I
        Heard.  The men seemed to
        Speak of conditional relations

        Overriding what might otherwise
        Have been said, if it was said long
        Ago or in another context.
        I watched through a mist of music
        The rising and fall of it all, the
        Imputation of sadness
        And inevitable loss.

        I rolled over and the ringing
        In my ears increased.  I checked
        The time.  I’d slept too long
        And it drowned out the nuance,
        And signification, the bandied
        Words.  The boy on the Ferris
        Wheel saw it all and wept.


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