In a message dated 9/30/2005 8:23:00 A.M. Central Daylight Time, judithevans001@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx writes: JE> . But I don't want to see an JE> old-style isolationist US. Eac> Hi, Judy... Eac> Eac> Would you explain why you would not? by "old-style isolationist US" I mean the isolationism of the Thirties. It's easiest to quote: >Hitler came to power in January of 1933, the Second Great War began in >1939, and America didnât join the war until December of 1941 perhaps that explains why I would not. MB: Oh, okay. Yes. Well. Fine. You do have a point. (I have a bad feeling that I'm about to face some facts...<g>) Eac> Since we are so disliked everywhere, in some respects <g>, Eac> I often think that would be not so bad... alternatively you could look -- as of course many in the US do -- at why "you" are "so disliked everywhere, in some respects", if, that is, that is indeed correct. (You have probably not seen a full list of countries who offered aif after Katrina. Or perhaps that does not count.) Well, isn't because we meddle so much? And, since apparently the 'powers that be' are not able to restrain themselves, hiding out until we can retrain them to behave seemed like it might make people in the rest of the world happier with us. and, yes...there was a lot of support and, actually, I think it did an incredible amount of good in terms of those here who DO want the U.S. to regress back into a little world of their own. (That was, of course, not the intent of those who gave, but it has happened. It's rather interesting...) Eac> I mean--we'd not be the so-called saviors any longer; I don't know who calls you saviours Oh, I think we call ourselves saviors. No doubt no one else does--but many here in the U.S. do think that the U.S. 'gives' a lot to other countries to help and assist (not really paying attention to the thought that we are all in this world together... Eac> we'd Eac> be focusing on our own problems and taking care of our own Eac> people; I certainly hope so. You could start by protesting against cuts in Medicaid to pay for Katrina aid relief. MB: Oh, there's a thought!! <g> Okay, so maybe I'm the only one who did do my part and wrote my Senator. Hard to tell. I still am figuring people out and am not there yet. Still, I got one fun letter in response from the one senator in our state who is one of the few moderate Republicans and actually does NOT want those sorts of cuts to happen. He usually loses and Bush does something to either threaten or punish him. His wife is going to do fund-raising this year for Republicans. I only hope that she releases funds only to the moderates. I do hope that the other senator loses in the next election as he is one of the Bush Bully Boys and we have a really possible Democratic potential in the running. (She's currently our state auditor--she would be a great senator). I, personally, do try to do what I can do. Most of the time I do not see that happening too much with other people, though. So, sometimes I do think that if we closed all the doors, put up the walls and had the Big Boys begin to focus, we'd be better off. I think they have too many distractions, sometimes. Too many pots to loot--and so, one strategy would be to remove the temptation until they proved they could handle it responsibly...or something like that. Kind of like taking a kid who is not able to focus (too tired, too many distractions, whatever) and holding his head still and saying "Look into my eyes." Eac> we'd let Others be grown-ups in their own countries Eac> and Eac> [hopefully] their own personal actions would be such that they Eac> would move towards collective personal growth and development in Eac> a healthy way without our meddling interference; we think we do reasonably well right now, Marlena MB: But, wouldn't it be SO much easier without our meddling? What if the only choice was to have the U.S. in the world's playground but as a meddler or to have the U.S. hiding out behind a wall trying to get itself put back into shape so it could play well with others? Would you really want us the way we are, now? It's not that everyone else does so poorly now, it's that it sometimes at least *sounds* like everyone would like us to just go away from everywhere... Eac> we'd get Eac> control, again, of our so-called global corporate world which is Eac> draining the world dry and hurting the Earth; you mean you could control your corporations better if they were confined to the US? (now there's a millennial dream!) MB: Well, again--I do like to dream! And, that was kind of a dream, I grant you. More like a fantasy, maybe? It would be easier to get control, though, if it took less time for them to loot and ruin in a small area and then to (hopefully) face the consequences of their own action. Kind of like grabbing a kid knocking all the candy off the shelf in a store and placing the child in a spot where the kid cannot do as much damage until he calms down and focuses on what is causing the lack and limitation. I think it would take some major work and, frankly, I'm not very confident that the selfish souls in this nation even want to look at their actions. (it's hard enough for someone like me to face myself when *I* mess up or act less than my best...) It also might be easier to figure out how to get control if we could get them to stay put and let us figure out how to manage them... Oh, fine. You can tell I don't have it all figured out yet! Eac> we could create Eac> that Wall so that the bright smart creative illegal immigrants Eac> would have to begin True Reform in their Own Nation of Mexico (or Eac> wherever-- this is satire, right? MB: Um. Yes... Okay. Kind of. It does bother me, though, to think that people run away from their own places because life is so horrible there. What I wonder is if people would stay or come if things in Mexico were as great as they are in Canada. (what Paul said) If they had a choice of staying in a cool place like Mexico and living a great life would they still want to come to the USA? I imagine that some would and some wouldn't. It's either that or have all immigrant be legal and *make* those who are hiring the illegal immigrants pay them living wages...even for those horrible jobs that theoretically no one wants to do. I dislike knowing that they are being taken advantage of -- that people are having to take jobs paying them a pittance simply because they don't want to pay a decent wage. If I think about it too much, I almost go crazy... and sometimes if I end up going down that path, I end up thinking about how horrible life must be for them and their loved ones back in Mexico--if they are willing to live as slaves here being taken advantage of by people--then what is life like for those in Mexico? Is it really that horrible? Is there no one there fighting to reform Life there so that those who live there won't *need* the money sent to them in order to live a decent life? Eac> okay, kind of tough love, but hey...we're talking Eac> long-term health here of those they love and currently send Eac> money home to assist...) like the Irish and the Italians? perhaps you should send them home MB: Well, I'm not sure we had too many standards regarding immigration at that point for so many to get in illegally. I thought many were able to get here legally...they had to work for a long time sometimes to pay for passage and then gradually paid for one member and then another to come (much like what happens now even on the legal side of things for immigration). I go to a friend's home on Sunday and as she is a major genealogy buff and specializes in Italian genealogy, I'll find out more then... Eac> ; Europe would become who it was born to Eac> be I don't know what it was born to be or what you think it's like right now MB: Well, I don't know, either, but I keep thinking that if the US would just go away and not bother everyone that they'd be better off. And, for some strange reason--I keep hearing that, too. Again--if the only choice is for us to go away and not interfere and make messes or to keep interfering and making messes--which is better? I mean--sure it would be nice if we would somehow play well with all the others, but if those in charge will not...that does not seem to be a feasible choice... Eac> [and that we long to visit OK, you haven't been here <g> No only to China...I am dreaming of going to the UK for the World Jamboree in 2007, though. Or, just to come on a scouting pilgrimage...we can stay in Lord Baden-Powell's home, spend the night at Brownsea, etc. It would be so grand...(But we have Seabase this summer first) Eac> and, of course, there would still Eac> be *some* visiting going on...] by you, yes. Whether we would be allowed into the US is I suppose to be decided. MB: Since this is MY fantasy, I think I can say that there would be!! <g> Eac> ; etc etc. quite MB: <g> I do like the way you write! Eac> There is, as you all know, the part of me which IS an Eac> isolationist. and, since I cannot fix everything (yet <g>), I'd Eac> sometimes like to scale down so that we can fix what needs to be Eac> fixed...feed those in our own neighborhoods, etc. which would be a damn good idea. MB: Finally!! I really needed some words of affirmation about some of my thoughts! (Even if they were written when I was mulling things over and pondering Life and People and such...) Eac> Eac> and, besides. I'm tired of hearing how horrible Americans Eac> are... so who are all these people who keep telling you how horrible Americans are? MB: That's an interesting statement. We hear it here SO much--mostly from people from other countries who are visiting or working, I suppose. (I think Andreas has even mentioned that in regards to those in his area, especially) It's on the news, in the papers, people say that in regards to what it is like when they visit overseas, etc. My friend who is in Italy and moving back to NYC says that she pretends to be Italian alot... Eac> the personality type of me that is not the puzzled 'why Eac> don't they like me' says to just hole up and run away. Harden Eac> the heart and shift the shoulder and focus on those who are my Eac> own... like you did till Pearl Harbor. MB: HEY! Okay, fine. But, look what we have done to this world SINCE THEN?? What's the 'good' of what we have done since then? I don't think that those of us who communicate in the 'words of affirmation' get to hear that very often...(and that is one of my primary ways of communication...sad to say.) Eac> isn't that the way of Confucius? To take care of 'the Eac> family' only? doesn't sound much like it to me MB: Well, that was what I was told...I guess I'll have to do try to search out a reference? Or does anyone else who might have read this far have a better understanding of whether or not that is the Chinese/Confucius standard? Eac> (Granted, part of me says get rid of the federal Eac> government and just be nation-states as states, too...okay, Eac> counties. Okay--we want separate from Kansas City. Eastern Eac> parts of counties separate from Western. Or maybe just feudal Eac> cities again...) yes well, I'm an internationalist. MB: <G> Yes, well. There's a thought...I suppose I'm a BIT of one. Or maybe that was my past life. Hard to say since I'm not sure I remember it very well... Still, you do expand my horizons so that is surely something-and I do think it positive. I always enjoy 'talking' with you! Best, Marlena in Missouri