On 2005/02/26, at 21:32, John Wager wrote: > Our > daughter turned out to be a very persuasive person, ready to argue for > anything she was trying to talk us into, and she never feared being > punished for trying to give a good reason for something. So in our > case, what Lakoff says DOES fit. > My experience has been similar. I, too, have a daughter and her upbringing was very much along "nurturant parent" lines. She, too, is a very persuasive person who never had to fear punishment for trying to give a good reason for something. She was also, however, exposed to Japanese education in kindergarten and elementary school, which has something to do with her current career as an (Annapolis, '98) Navy helicopter pilot. She clearly prefers being eccentric in relation to an established structure to being in wholly unstructured situations. I will never forget what she said when it came time to choose between the Academy or Duke: "If I go to Annapolis, I will know who I am. If I go to Duke, I will be one of thousands of people who don't know who they are." John L. McCreery The Word Works, Ltd. 55-13-202 Miyagaya, Nishi-ku Yokohama, Japan 220-0006 Tel 81-45-314-9324 Email John.McCreery@xxxxxxxxxxxx "Making Symbols is Our Business" ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html