Have you seen these websites? They only concentrate on the gay aspect rather than kids from minority groups etc and they're not as interactive as I think we are hoping to go but they may help with research: http://www.colage.org/ http://www.apa.org/pi/parent.html http://www.familieslikemine.com/ http://www.growingkids.co.uk/GayLesbianParents.html On 11/04/2008, Michael Blumental <mickey@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > > I'm sticking to my guns. If there are forums, they have to be moderated. > It's supposed to be a protected environment and I won't allow any bullying > or bad language from people who come to cause trouble. Also, I don't want to > have "arguments" at all. I'm not even entirely sure about the forums at all. > The original idea was to offer people a variety of content they can't get > anywhere else (stories, games etc featuring diverse families). Perhaps we > should leave the forums out as that's distracting from the main focus. We > can think about it later. When doing some research about other kids website > I'll take note to see if they have forums and how they handle it. > > > > If I have time tonight, I'll start a Wiki where I'll start writing down > information from our discussion (for example the list of names we gathered > so far). > > > > --MB > > > > On Apr 11, 2008, *pil@xxxxxxxxxxxx* wrote: > > i think > the kids need a forum > for joking around > and talking allot > heavy moderating wikk take that away > i think hose kids will know what homophobic - is > and i trust them to drive their enemys away > and feel stronger for it > if not- we will drive them away > but- MIKI- YOU SEE HOW SOMETIMES THE BEST threads in - Tapuz, for > example- are the ones with all the arguing ... > > אלית מאיירת > http://www.elite-illustrator.com > בקרו בבלוג המאוייר שלי > http://www.elite-illustrator.com/blog/ > > > > On Apr 11, 2008, at 4:17 PM, Mark Bendon wrote: > > > writing from phone hence brevity. you're right, it didn't occur to me > > that kids may well be reading. it'd be tragic if they were exposed to > > any phobic bile. > > > > On 4/11/08, Michael Blumental <mickey@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > >> Hi, > >> > >> I agree regarding the names. It'll be nearly impossible to find a > >> good short > >> name. The length isn't important as much as having a catchy name > >> with easy > >> to spell words. > >> > >> I think the mailing list is the best way to discuss this, as people > >> get the > >> messages right in their mailbox rather than having to visit an > >> external > >> website and login to a forum, though I'm open for suggestions. > >> > >> As to moderating forums, I'm being extremely paranoid. I want to have > >> exactly ZERO chance for any offensive message to be on the forums > >> for more > >> than a fraction of a second. Even with 24/7 moderation that would > >> be a > >> tricky task. That's why I think moderator approval for every post > >> is a must > >> if we go for something like that. > >> > >> --MB > >> > >> > >> On Apr 11, 2008, origamiairplane@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx wrote: > >> Long names are acceptable if they're well known phrases -- both > >> stick in the > >> memory. Unfortunately as I say there aren't many .coms left > >> available, with > >> people blanket buying a lot of random combinations of one or two > >> words. > >> > >> On 11/04/2008, elite avni <pil@xxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > >> all these names are so long... > >> lets find or creat aforum for this > >> for now > >> so we can chat > >> easier > >> > >> אלית מאיירת > >> http://www.elite-illustrator.com > >> בקרו בבלוג המאוייר שלי > >> http://www.elite-illustrator.com/blog/ > >> > >> > >> > >> On Apr 11, 2008, at 1:56 AM, Mark Bendon wrote: > >> Oops, er, www.athousandcolors.com was meant to be the American > >> spelling, and > >> it is still available. I spelt it the UK way in the previous email. > >> Not that > >> great a URL, granted. :) > >> > >> On 10/04/2008, Mark Bendon <origamiairplane@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > >> Hey guys, > >> > >> Nice to see things moving along. :) > >> > >> I personally think that the community is absolutely key to > >> something like > >> this, and vetting every post feels like something which could > >> stifle its > >> formation. Certainly mods should keep a watchful eye for homophobes > >> etc., > >> but so long as the site is clearly provided to support all types of > >> families rather than promote homosexuality (not that I subscribe to > >> the ridiculous notions people have about these things, but the > >> world has more than its fair share of idiots who will point the > >> "you're promoting homosexuality!" finger), a large section of > >> antagonists should be deterred I think. > >> > >> I don't know how you guys feel about that, just my own two cents. > >> > >> A key ethos of the site could be the encouragement of contributions > >> from its > >> readership/forums perhaps? > >> > >> As for name ideas, I find it helpful to just jot anything down, get > >> a long > >> old list going, to start the old creative juices flowing. > >> > >> So, I've verified the following are all still available > >> (unfortunately none > >> are one or two words -- there's not many .coms left to go round!): > >> > >> www.everykindoffamily.com > >> www.takingallcomers.com > >> www.jointherainbow.com > >> www.followourrainbow.com > >> www.athousandcolours.com > >> www.everycoloureverycreed.com > >> www.rainbowchain.com > >> www.aplaceforusall.com > >> www.nocloseddoors.com > >> www.theeveryoneclub.com > >> www.justonebigfamily.com > >> > >> > >> > >> On 10/04/2008, Michael Blumental <mickey@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > >> Hi, > >> > >> I don't think the website's name should have the word "gay" in it > >> too. It > >> should be something that promotes diversity and fun. In fact, it > >> should be > >> quite subtle, not preachy. > >> > >> Can't for the love of God think of any new names. I'll do some > >> research > >> tomorrow and list the names of other similar kids' websites/ > >> portals. I'll > >> also take note of what material they have on their site and what > >> age groups > >> they target. > >> > >> It is possible that some of the games we'll make will appeal to > >> adults. Haven't thought of that... Can anyone here make Flash > >> games? My > >> ActionScript is rusty, but I might try to brush up on it in the > >> upcoming > >> months... > >> > >> > >> > >> --MB > >> > >> > >> > >> On 10 Apr 2008, at 22:52, elite avni wrote: > >> Hi mIki > >> > >> I think the idea of several sections for deferent ages is good > >> but also- perhaps each game will have levels- so a 4 year old can > >> brag about > >> him solving big boys riddles. > >> and since you are a gamer > >> i expect the game section to attract ppl from everywhere. > >> yes- some homophobes too. perhaps they will learn a thing or 2... > >> > >> as for the name > >> > >> Gaymer > >> as in > >> Gamer ? > >> > >> and i had another one, but i dont remember the word. something that > >> ends > >> with- fairy - and is in the amusement park... > >> > >> i think it should be a short small name, easy to remember, not too > >> much " > >> gay-in-your-face"- so a kid can wear the shirt with the logo, and > >> wont > >> be ridiculed as > >> " you go to the gay site...na na na na " > >> > >> like > >> CNV > >> > >> like > >> K.G > >> > >> we loooove K>G > >> (kids gay) > >> > >> or GK > >> or > >> \you know what i mean > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> אלית מאיירת > >> http://www.elite-illustrator.com > >> בקרו בבלוג המאוייר שלי > >> http://www.elite-illustrator.com/blog/ > >> > >> > >> > >> On Apr 10, 2008, at 10:41 PM, Michael Blumental wrote: > >> Hi, > >> > >> This e-mail from my friend Elite is in Hebrew and I imagine was > >> meant to be > >> sent to me directly. You don't need to understand hebrew to see > >> that she's > >> very talented from her attachment! Some interesting ideas which > >> I'll roughly > >> translate: > >> > >> Elite suggests to have forums and blogs (including a podcast). An > >> idea I > >> really like was to have competitions (drawing, colouring etc.). > >> Also there > >> was an idea to create shirts, stickers etc with logos and images > >> from the > >> site. > >> > >> I think forums are a nice idea, but we need to be very careful with > >> that. It > >> might attract homophobes and perverts and needs to be very carefully > >> moderated. Perhaps even have a moderator approve every single > >> message before > >> it is posted. I think it'll be nice to create a section for parents > >> to get > >> feedback from them and keep them up to date with behind the scenes > >> bits and > >> sneak previews and perhaps even recruit visitors to volunteer > >> themselves if > >> they happen to have a creative talent. > >> > >> Age-wise: I was initially thinking of very young children, but I > >> think we'll > >> create two or three main sections aimed at different ages, offering a > >> variety of activities. > >> > >> Another fun thing to think about is a name. Just throw in any silly > >> name > >> that goes through your name, even if it's bad. In fact, especially > >> if it's > >> bad. I'll go first with my horrible name, see if you can top it: > >> Gay Jr. > >> That name is wrong on so many way: > >> > >> 1) It's not inclusive. It's not only for kids with gay parents. > >> 2) It sounds like it's about gay kids, which it's not. > >> 3) It sounds like a child porn website! Yikes. > >> > >> Anyway! > >> > >> --MB > >> > >> On 10 Apr 2008, at 18:18, elite avni wrote: > >> הי מותק > >> ראשית > >> אנא כתוב לי בקצרה בעברית את הרעיון > >> כדי שאוכל לשלוח גם לדורית, אור, קירש > >> ויוענה- שאני בטוחה שישמחו לתרום. > >> שנית > >> אני מוכנה לצייר לפני דרישה דברים > >> פשוטים > >> דפים לצביעה > >> חבר את הנקודות, מבוכים ומשחקים וכו > >> אשמח לתרום ציורים קיימים שניתן יהיה > >> לקשור אותם לכל נושא שתביאו > >> בקשר לתכנים- מי אני שאוכל לחבר תוכן > >> לכזו משימה, אבל אשמל להפיץ ברשימות > >> תפוצה > >> ובפורומים מתאימים. > >> > >> אני חושבת שאתר כזה דורש מערכת פורומים > >> ובלוגים > >> אולי שידורי פוד ורדיו קטן > >> אולי קצת סלבס > >> לא נראה לי שתהיה בעיה לרתום שחקנים > >> וזמרים רבים- לכתוב איזה מכתב עידוד, > >> להשיב > >> בפורום וכו > >> > >> אשמח לעזור בשיפוט תחרויות ציור וצביעה > >> ואולי להעניק כמה שיעורי ציור או > >> פוטושופ און ליין בכל שיטה שתבחר. > >> > >> כמובן שבהמשך ידרש הלוגו לככב על > >> חולצות ומדבקות ודברים ממשיים ולא > >> וירטואליים- > >> אז חשוב עליו היטב, ואם אתה זקוק לעזרה- > >> נראה לי שלאור יש נסיון כביר בזה.. ( > >> יוזם קווירחנות ותיק וידוע). > >> > >> המיזם שלך ראוי להערכה > >> עלה והצלח > >> אוהבת > >> > >> (ראית את הסאות'פארק הלפני אחרון על > >> קנדה ??) > >> > >> <Sado3.jpg> > >> > >> אלית מאיירת > >> http://www.elite-illustrator.com > >> בקרו בבלוג המאוייר שלי > >> http://www.elite-illustrator.com/blog/ > >> > >> > >> > >> On Apr 10, 2008, at 3:58 PM, Michael Blumental wrote: > >> > >> Hi all, > >> > >> This is the new list for the new LGBT website project you all showed > >> interest in. The purpose of this list is to discuss exactly what we > >> should > >> be doing. The basic idea, as I pitched it before, is to have a fun > >> website > >> for parents and children where they can access stories, games and > >> activities > >> that they can enjoy both off-line and on-line. The twist is that > >> the content > >> will feature as a setting a variety of different family types: gay, > >> transgender, single, mixed race etc. etc. > >> > >> So let the discussion start! I'll be creating a Wiki soon to keep > >> track of > >> the discussions on the mailing list. > >> > >> To write to the list either reply to any message sent by the list > >> or compose > >> a message to lgbtwebproject@xxxxxxxxxxxxx . > >> > >> There are ten of us so far (though I know some have a less frequent > >> access > >> to e-mail than others), but feel free to recruit for the cause. > >> > >> Anyway! > >> > >> My plan is to have stories and poems that can be viewed on-line > >> (perhaps > >> with simple animations or flash interactivity) or printed offline. > >> There > >> should be games and activities (connect the dots, spot the > >> differences, > >> colouring etc.). Anything else? Does anyone have any questions or > >> thoughts > >> on the technical side of putting it all together? > >> > >> > >> Cheers, > >> > >> --MB > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > > > > -- > > Sent from Google Mail for mobile | mobile.google.com > > >