[lgbtwebproject] Re: Welcome to the new list!

  • From: Michael Blumental <mickey@xxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: lgbtwebproject@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Fri, 11 Apr 2008 14:41:26 +0000 (GMT)

I'm sticking to my guns. If there are forums, they have to be moderated. It's supposed to be a protected environment and I won't allow any bullying or bad language from people who come to cause trouble. Also, I don't want to have "arguments" at all. I'm not even entirely sure about the forums at all. The original idea was to offer people a variety of content they can't get anywhere else (stories, games etc featuring diverse families). Perhaps we should leave the forums out as that's distracting from the main focus. We can think about it later. When doing some research about other kids website I'll take note to see if they have forums and how they handle it.

 

If I have time tonight, I'll start a Wiki where I'll start writing down information from our discussion (for example the list of names we gathered so far).

 

--MB 

 

On Apr 11, 2008, pil@xxxxxxxxxxxx wrote:

i think
the kids need a forum
for joking around
and talking allot
heavy moderating wikk take that away
i think hose kids will know what homophobic - is
and i trust them to drive their enemys away
and feel stronger for it
if not- we will drive them away
but- MIKI- YOU SEE HOW SOMETIMES THE BEST threads in - Tapuz, for  
example- are the ones with all the arguing ...

אלית מאיירת
http://www.elite-illustrator.com
בקרו בבלוג המאוייר שלי
http://www.elite-illustrator.com/blog/



On Apr 11, 2008, at 4:17 PM, Mark Bendon wrote:

> writing from phone hence brevity. you're right, it didn't occur to me
> that kids may well be reading. it'd be tragic if they were exposed to
> any phobic bile.
>
> On 4/11/08, Michael Blumental <mickey@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
>> Hi,
>>
>> I agree regarding the names. It'll be nearly impossible to find a  
>> good short
>> name. The length isn't important as much as having a catchy name  
>> with easy
>> to spell words.
>>
>> I think the mailing list is the best way to discuss this, as people  
>> get the
>> messages right in their mailbox rather than having to visit an  
>> external
>> website and login to a forum, though I'm open for suggestions.
>>
>> As to moderating forums, I'm being extremely paranoid. I want to have
>> exactly ZERO chance for any offensive message to be on the forums  
>> for more
>> than a fraction of a second. Even with 24/7 moderation that would  
>> be a
>> tricky task. That's why I think moderator approval for every post  
>> is a must
>> if we go for something like that.
>>
>> --MB
>>
>>
>> On Apr 11, 2008, origamiairplane@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx wrote:
>> Long names are acceptable if they're well known phrases -- both  
>> stick in the
>> memory. Unfortunately as I say there aren't many .coms left  
>> available, with
>> people blanket buying a lot of random combinations of one or two  
>> words.
>>
>> On 11/04/2008, elite avni <pil@xxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
>> all these names are so long...
>> lets find or creat aforum for this
>> for now
>> so we can chat
>> easier
>>
>> אלית מאיירת
>> http://www.elite-illustrator.com
>> בקרו בבלוג המאוייר שלי
>> http://www.elite-illustrator.com/blog/
>>
>>
>>
>> On Apr 11, 2008, at 1:56 AM, Mark Bendon wrote:
>> Oops, er, www.athousandcolors.com was meant to be the American  
>> spelling, and
>> it is still available. I spelt it the UK way in the previous email.  
>> Not that
>> great a URL, granted. :)
>>
>> On 10/04/2008, Mark Bendon <origamiairplane@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
>> Hey guys,
>>
>> Nice to see things moving along. :)
>>
>> I personally think that the community is absolutely key to  
>> something like
>> this, and vetting every post feels like something which could  
>> stifle its
>> formation. Certainly mods should keep a watchful eye for homophobes  
>> etc.,
>> but so long as the site is clearly provided to support all types of  
>> families rather than promote homosexuality (not that I subscribe to  
>> the ridiculous notions people have about these things, but the  
>> world has more than its fair share of idiots who will point the  
>> "you're promoting homosexuality!" finger), a large section of  
>> antagonists should be deterred I think.
>>
>> I don't know how you guys feel about that, just my own two cents.
>>
>> A key ethos of the site could be the encouragement of contributions  
>> from its
>> readership/forums perhaps?
>>
>> As for name ideas, I find it helpful to just jot anything down, get  
>> a long
>> old list going, to start the old creative juices flowing.
>>
>> So, I've verified the following are all still available  
>> (unfortunately none
>> are one or two words -- there's not many .coms left to go round!):
>>
>> www.everykindoffamily.com
>> www.takingallcomers.com
>> www.jointherainbow.com
>> www.followourrainbow.com
>> www.athousandcolours.com
>> www.everycoloureverycreed.com
>> www.rainbowchain.com
>> www.aplaceforusall.com
>> www.nocloseddoors.com
>> www.theeveryoneclub.com
>> www.justonebigfamily.com
>>
>>
>>
>> On 10/04/2008, Michael Blumental <mickey@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
>> Hi,
>>
>> I don't think the website's name should have the word "gay" in it  
>> too. It
>> should be something that promotes diversity and fun. In fact, it  
>> should be
>> quite subtle, not preachy.
>>
>> Can't for the love of God think of any new names. I'll do some  
>> research
>> tomorrow and list the names of other similar kids' websites/
>> portals. I'll
>> also take note of what material they have on their site and what  
>> age groups
>> they target.
>>
>> It is possible that some of the games we'll make will appeal to
>> adults. Haven't thought of that... Can anyone here make Flash  
>> games? My
>> ActionScript is rusty, but I might try to brush up on it in the  
>> upcoming
>> months...
>>
>>
>>
>> --MB
>>
>>
>>
>> On 10 Apr 2008, at 22:52, elite avni wrote:
>> Hi mIki
>>
>> I think the idea of several sections for deferent ages is good
>> but also- perhaps each game will have levels- so a 4 year old can  
>> brag about
>> him solving big boys riddles.
>> and since you are a gamer
>> i expect the game section to attract ppl from everywhere.
>> yes- some homophobes too. perhaps they will learn a thing or 2...
>>
>> as for the name
>>
>> Gaymer
>> as in
>> Gamer ?
>>
>> and i had another one, but i dont remember the word. something that  
>> ends
>> with- fairy - and is in the amusement park...
>>
>> i think it should be  a short small name, easy to remember, not too  
>> much "
>> gay-in-your-face"- so a kid can wear the shirt with the logo, and  
>> wont
>> be ridiculed as
>> " you go to the gay site...na na na na "
>>
>> like
>> CNV
>>
>> like
>> K.G
>>
>> we loooove  K>G
>> (kids gay)
>>
>> or GK
>> or
>> \you know  what i mean
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> אלית מאיירת
>> http://www.elite-illustrator.com
>> בקרו בבלוג המאוייר שלי
>> http://www.elite-illustrator.com/blog/
>>
>>
>>
>> On Apr 10, 2008, at 10:41 PM, Michael Blumental wrote:
>> Hi,
>>
>> This e-mail from my friend Elite is in Hebrew and I imagine was  
>> meant to be
>> sent to me directly. You don't need to understand hebrew to see  
>> that she's
>> very talented from her attachment! Some interesting ideas which  
>> I'll roughly
>> translate:
>>
>> Elite suggests to have forums and blogs (including a podcast). An  
>> idea I
>> really like was to have competitions (drawing, colouring etc.).  
>> Also there
>> was an idea to create shirts, stickers etc with logos and images  
>> from the
>> site.
>>
>> I think forums are a nice idea, but we need to be very careful with  
>> that. It
>> might attract homophobes and perverts and needs to be very carefully
>> moderated. Perhaps even have a moderator approve every single  
>> message before
>> it is posted. I think it'll be nice to create a section for parents  
>> to get
>> feedback from them and keep them up to date with behind the scenes  
>> bits and
>> sneak previews and perhaps even recruit visitors to volunteer  
>> themselves if
>> they happen to have a creative talent.
>>
>> Age-wise: I was initially thinking of very young children, but I  
>> think we'll
>> create two or three main sections aimed at different ages, offering a
>> variety of activities.
>>
>> Another fun thing to think about is a name. Just throw in any silly  
>> name
>> that goes through your name, even if it's bad. In fact, especially  
>> if it's
>> bad. I'll go first with my horrible name, see if you can top it:  
>> Gay Jr.
>> That name is wrong on so many way:
>>
>> 1) It's not inclusive. It's not only for kids with gay parents.
>> 2) It sounds like it's about gay kids, which it's not.
>> 3) It sounds like a child porn website! Yikes.
>>
>> Anyway!
>>
>> --MB
>>
>> On 10 Apr 2008, at 18:18, elite avni wrote:
>> הי מותק
>> ראשית
>> אנא כתוב לי בקצרה בעברית את הרעיון
>> כדי שאוכל לשלוח גם לדורית, אור, קירש  
>> ויוענה- שאני בטוחה שישמחו לתרום.
>> שנית
>> אני מוכנה לצייר לפני דרישה דברים  
>> פשוטים
>> דפים לצביעה
>> חבר את הנקודות, מבוכים ומשחקים וכו
>> אשמח לתרום ציורים קיימים שניתן יהיה  
>> לקשור אותם לכל נושא שתביאו
>> בקשר לתכנים- מי אני שאוכל לחבר תוכן  
>> לכזו משימה, אבל אשמל להפיץ ברשימות  
>> תפוצה
>> ובפורומים מתאימים.
>>
>> אני חושבת שאתר כזה דורש מערכת פורומים  
>> ובלוגים
>> אולי שידורי פוד  ורדיו קטן
>> אולי קצת סלבס
>> לא נראה לי שתהיה בעיה לרתום שחקנים  
>> וזמרים רבים- לכתוב איזה מכתב עידוד,  
>> להשיב
>> בפורום וכו
>>
>> אשמח לעזור בשיפוט תחרויות ציור וצביעה
>> ואולי להעניק כמה שיעורי ציור או  
>> פוטושופ און ליין בכל שיטה שתבחר.
>>
>> כמובן שבהמשך ידרש הלוגו לככב על  
>> חולצות ומדבקות ודברים ממשיים ולא  
>> וירטואליים-
>> אז חשוב עליו היטב, ואם אתה זקוק לעזרה-  
>> נראה לי שלאור יש נסיון כביר בזה.. (
>> יוזם קווירחנות ותיק וידוע).
>>
>> המיזם שלך ראוי להערכה
>> עלה והצלח
>> אוהבת
>>
>> (ראית את הסאות'פארק הלפני אחרון על  
>> קנדה ??)
>>
>> <Sado3.jpg>
>>
>> אלית מאיירת
>> http://www.elite-illustrator.com
>> בקרו בבלוג המאוייר שלי
>> http://www.elite-illustrator.com/blog/
>>
>>
>>
>> On Apr 10, 2008, at 3:58 PM, Michael Blumental wrote:
>>
>> Hi all,
>>
>> This is the new list for the new LGBT website project you all showed
>> interest in. The purpose of this list is to discuss exactly what we  
>> should
>> be doing. The basic idea, as I pitched it before, is to have a fun  
>> website
>> for parents and children where they can access stories, games and  
>> activities
>> that they can enjoy both off-line and on-line. The twist is that  
>> the content
>> will feature as a setting a variety of different family types: gay,
>> transgender,  single, mixed race etc. etc.
>>
>> So let the discussion start! I'll be creating a Wiki soon to keep  
>> track of
>> the discussions on the mailing list.
>>
>> To write to the list either reply to any message sent by the list  
>> or compose
>> a message to lgbtwebproject@xxxxxxxxxxxxx .
>>
>> There are ten of us so far (though I know some have a less frequent  
>> access
>> to e-mail than others), but feel free to recruit for the cause.
>>
>> Anyway!
>>
>> My plan is to have stories and poems that can be viewed on-line  
>> (perhaps
>> with simple animations or flash interactivity) or printed offline.  
>> There
>> should be games and activities (connect the dots, spot the  
>> differences,
>> colouring etc.).  Anything else? Does anyone have any questions or  
>> thoughts
>> on the technical side of putting it all together?
>>
>>
>> Cheers,
>>
>> --MB
>>
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