Well Clare, there is one thing all these people haven't got. That is the friendship of our chat line. And I also believe that friendships between blind people is more stronger and closer than sighted ones. love Malcolm. xxx Hi Malcolm, yeah, I know only too well that it's the way life is it's so sad and such a shame. It's not good the people who used to be friends with you and your wife don't speak to you anymore that's so sad. It's so weird I can't explain it either. If only we knew the reasons for all this. Love Clare xxxx Hi Clare. You've hit it right on the head there Clare. But that's the way life is for us.As you already know a lot of people that talked to me and my wife don't any longer speak to me since she died. I can't explain it, can you. love Malcolm.xxx