Hi Carol, I agree it would be nice to get out more but its not that simple. Its one thing getting someone to take you when you can walk under your own steam, Its another thing when you need someone to push you in a wheel chair. There's the pushing you. Will the wheel chair go in the car. and so on. So its not that easy. But this is the idea bekind going to Scotland and wales. To get use to going out and were I can on my own. Like I came home from Scotland on my own, When I go to Vanessa's were going out on our own were its possible. That's going to be good for both of us. And when I feel confident enough to travel on my own I'm going to America U S A on my own to visit my friend Karen, This involves a plain to New York and then another plain to Indeiana. and then a taxi ride of sixty miles to her house. Anyone want to come with me. Me and Vanessa might one day go on the Orient Express together. Does anyone out there have a Bucket list. Make a list of the ten best things you'd like to do before its to late. That should get you all thinking. Lets have your Bucket list. love Malcolm. xxxx. Hyde, Cheshire, skype name, malcolmbo1 You Said. hi sweet boy sent your birthday gift today i know its early but its better to send it now before you go to vanessas house hey how come your lonely you need to get a carer to take you out twice a week come on boy get out more instead of sitting at your lap top 24 over 7 come on boy get out more life is too bloody short what are you having for your tea? that is you do find time to do it hahahahahahaha take care Love Carol x.x.x.x. ----- No virus found in this message. Checked by AVG - www.avg.com Version: 10.0.1392 / Virus Database: 1520/3835 - Release Date: 08/15/11