hello Sarah, know how you feel, but sometimes think that men are not quite so romantic as us, but the other day I was brought some flowers, and at the quiz on Sunday evening we won a large bag of jelly babies, they are lovely, especially if you bite there heads of first and then they cannot struggle, have noticed how quier it is today, thought Claire was back on group today, have had a few texts from her, she sounded fine, hugs and always call if you need a chat